have been humiliated or degraded or spoken to in a paternity listed arrogant way when they requested essec to me not a single one of us think for me. and what. i. thank someone. we hadn't been together for on i told him in passing that i was getting sterilized i knew it wouldn't shock him you know. he knew my views and he's very open minded to you know unless you're saying we have your commitment there throughout x. and what he reacted even better than i expected by you know young woman looking for ya because he accompanied me and before i went to the operating theatre he said i didn't mention it before but it's your body you don't have to ask my opinion i thought it was very sweet. and i can think of another reason which is gradually been reinforced i've discovered more and more works by feminist writers thinkers who explain to what extent motherhood can slave women for me it was another way of empowering myself taking control of my body i choose not to have children while little kid or your equal to many. well we see the good luck of advertising and the capitalist system have turned chil