that i would like us to stop deifying the mother the good mother the sacred mother the holy mother mary it's more complicated than all that and few of us can say that we've succeeded of there was a ball in. their home and then for example you can just refuse to pay child support or hire for an hour they can work abroad travel not accept paternity and it's absolutely all right but if you're a mother because they crucify you and burn you alive like a witch or. a seal was something unnatural or embassy or if for example i put my career before being a mother i'm judged. were not treated equally in fact men put their career 1st. to label mother really annoys me it grates on my nerves and it sort of doesn't fit with who i am inside to be a mother. i tell you i love my daughter so it's really complicated because i'd like to have a different font all to me. but i got one i thought at the end there are people who are concerned about the environment they say they recycle and all that but they don't know what else to do last week with math when i see they have kids i want to tell them the 1st thin