i asked edith morag or from the center for domestic training and development an ngo rescuing girls from abuse why parents in the country often cover up for the abusers you know in the african setup who are more used to the situation whereby if your abuse even by your husband you're supposed to run off to his relatives in for example to your mother in law saw that is where we are coming from so there's a lot of stigma when women go to seek for shelter outside it looks it to paint them in bad light but florence and yvonne are determined to break the stigma they rely on supporters to help finance the shelter and when the shelters cash strapped they do dips into their personal savings it's a huge commitment but they tell me seeing the girls 3 and being normal teenagers makes it all worthwhile. my guest today is to to lower the level i did me she is a coordinator for the lagos based on mistaken sexual violence response she bochum to d.w. news africa you know that we've just heard from some victims in kenya what is the situation in nigeria. good afternoon thank you what happened. we've seen a