shannon starbach, mother of five, dead, dead in a way that made skin crawl. >>> she had been so many things. mother. artist, woman on the brink of something new. >> shannon was funny. she was vivacious, she liked to joke around and have a good time. but classy, always very, very classy. >> her two older sons, austin and blake remember how she stood out even if it embarrassed them at time ps. >> she embroidered our names and numbers on all the baseball team and hats. >> we are the only team with the name and number on the back of our hats, you know. >> shannon tried to stitch her deep mormon faith in their lives. how was she with the kid? >> i would not hesitate saying she was a good mother. >> he was a boy from alaska when he laid eyes on her 20 years early. cold and hot worlds colliding. >> i told her i lived in alaska and she thought she was lucky she'd not see me again. >> but she did. they married in months and settled in to alaska where lay worked on the pipeline. started a family right away. and there were issues. aren't their always? clay, was not as interested in church. not t