>>> my older sister was denise mcnair, one of the youngest girls killed in the 16th street church bombing in 1963. a bomb was planted by the and it killed those girls and damaged the church and injured several others. i am here to share that story and share life lessons me and my family have learned over the years, dealing with this national tragedy. my goal is always the hope to bring together unity and help human beings understand we are all human beings and we can do better together than we can apart. >> lisa where you see the resistance coming in? where you see the people are not as comfortable with your message? >> i think the big thing is the human being thing. no one wants to acknowledge they have bad thoughts about other people. no one wants to admit that they have done bad things to other people based on race or gender. to really have a hard conversation about who we are as a people can be challenging. the only way for us to have real healing is to take our shame and pain out from under the table and deal with it. that is the only way we can come together. >> chief scott let's ta