really, after i was sitting down in a restaurant that i frequented in miami as an nfl player called nobuviting some of them out because i had a table that night later at this nightclub and i asked them if they would like to come and hang out and have drinks, just hang out after a long day of work and so one of my friends there, her name is dee, she told me that one of the guys wasn't going to come through and i was like, why? is he busy? and she was like, well, he's gay and, you know, the whole nfl macho thing. and i took offense and defense, like, am i giving off these vibes, like, i don't want to be around him? and she was like, no, it's the nfl macho thing so long story short, he ended up coming through later on and he and i talked for 30, 45 minutes as two human becomes and it really -- >> that began your journey. i'm out of time, sorry, i have to get to the next show, i have to get that on the air, but thank you, i appreciate your perspective, as you know, we have you on often. be well. >> thank sthanks, you, too. >> and thanks for watching, everyone. our coverage continues. jobs fo