, i'm assuming. >> well, yeah. >> what is that like when he reveals he's having an affair with linda coleman us off guard because that was the first time we discovered that. we had no reason to ask him about that type of relationship with linda. >> how long ago did that start? >> uh, probably like a year. >> and gil revealed that another detail that was even more surprising. >> did tom know about that? >> oh, yeah. >> he knew about our relationship, yeah. he -- he found out sometime in the summer. >> gil said that not only did tom know about the affair. the two men continued their friendship. >> and he saw that i was honest about it, and he was honest about it. so we got pretty close. i mean, to the point of like, he got me into football, which i didn't have a clue. >> how crazy is this, though, that tom continued to hang out with gilberto? they stayed friends even after he finds out he's sleeping with his wife? >> better man than i am. it is just not the norm. it is not something you see. >> was your head starting to spin a little bit. >> we're trying to get a hold of what we got now becaus