my dad's walking in that urine. i said, "my dad shouldn't be walking in that."local authority paid about £620 a week for mick's care. when the pandemic hit, restrictions on visiting meant tess saw little of her dad. but she checked on him regularly by phone. we decided to call after 5:00 to see how my dad was. and she said "he's fine, he's pottering around. "he's been a little bit sick." i said, "he's not end of life, is he?" "no, no, nothing like that. "you've got nothing to worry about. "we'll contact you and have you in." i said, "because i don't want my dad to pass on his own." and then...four hours later i got a call to say he'd died. on his own, nobody with him. since mick's death, the regulator has rated the home as "requiring improvement" and there's now new management. the home's run by four seasons health care, one of the uk's biggest care home groups. until recently, it was owned by private equity firms. these are companies that raise funds from private investors. typically, a private equity house brings together wealthy private individuals and instit

and then we had to live with my dad to. i think my daughter's running for governor! yet my father would announce this to the press sometimes. and so -- to have somebody who understood it and respected it made it so much easier. once in a while, the travel would be an issue, right? because once we had susan, i would take her and -- we will go back to our district. that was the only hard part. but in terms of people who won two and so we are going through and needing health and patients, now. it's a gift. >> just a couple of years later, as you, mentioned you had a daughter. so your off small -- one of a small group of women in office to have given birth. what was your experience? >> super. >> right before that was someone else was born -- pregnant before me. so it wasn't a shock. she had just gone through with it. our colleagues versus we, the gifts would pour in. how are you feeling, you look a little tired. that's when you become close friends with your women colleagues. >> did you receive any advice from then or a mention from unit green? >> not really i think that

my dad was also serving in italy . he was serving in the army, and she hoped and expressed this hoped to my grandmother, i dad's mom, that may be my dad could learn something about what happened to bob dole, how he was doing and what his chances were. my dad took leave and made the effort to find bob dole to discover that he had been transported and evacuated out the day before. he missed seeing him by a day. i walked out of church last sunday, one week ago tomorrow, only to learn the news of senator dole's passing. and i want folks to know that every time i think of bob dole, i think of russell, i think of places like russell. towns like russell, some a little bit bigger, some a little bit smaller, and each of these towns there are differences of opinions. there are republicans and there's democrats, there's people who go to this church or that church, but you know when it comes to communities in kansas, communities like russell, we set aside our differences and try to solve problems. maybe in a place like russell you

and my dad would say, my daughter. so i learned to speak publicly before i knew i was supposed to be afraid of it. and so it's just -- because i was always active in his campaigns, people came to me and asked me from a very young age to consider running for office. then this position opened up for the new york city council. i thought it would give me a chance to go back to new york city. there was no way i would win this race, but it would give me some exposure and get to know people in new york city for a job in public relations. once you go out there and start to meet the people and start to shake hands and hear about what their concerns are, and once you start to figure out maybe i can actually do this and fix their problems, you become so convinced that you have to win. so i ran for the new york city council when my dad decided to run for borough president to increase the participation of republicans on staten island. my mother was diagnosed not long before that with a muscle disease, so it was kind of wearing on m

my dad was very bipartisan. he believed very much in the institution as opposed the political party. a lot of the memories i have of my dad were teaching me the lesson up he worked very closely within congressman chuck schumer. he saved the hospital that was about to close. a public health hospital on staten island as a freshman member because he did not know any better that he was not supposed to be able to have that kind of clout and figure things out. most of the memories i have of my dad. he saw walls but he did not walk around them he took him down and he still does. : : : in the carryall they said that is going to nominate guy to the state assembly. i said i got her so speaking publicly, i thought i would be afraid of it. and so because i was always active and from a very young age to running for office and then it open up the near city council and working in washington dc, back in new york city there is no way that i was supposed to be in this frame. but it would give me some good exposure. and i wanted t

i felt so fortunate i was able to spend hundreds of hours with my dad, and talk to him almost every singleing under the sun. he told me things i never knew. he asked about my life, but my friend's lives. we made lots of calls to family, to former colleagues in the senate and in the house, the former staff. he shared feelings he had not shared before with many of these people. it was a wonderful experience for me to listen to these conversations, and such a gift to them and to dad. my dad is the most generous person i have ever known. he was a giver, not a taker. he cared more about others than he did about himself. he told me he set a personal goal to help at least one person every day of his life. then, he said "i'm not sure i have been able to meet my goal." i said "dad, you got to be kidding. some days, you help one person, other days you helped 40,000 people. i think you have met and exceeded your goal. well, you may be right, he said." there is no one he helped more than me. he has always been there for me through thick and thin. he always has my back, even when i have made mistakes,

chairman, my dad killed himself. that was a long time ago. but i think it would be extremely important for this committee to hold a hearing on senior suicide because we've learned since my focusing on suicide, we've done some good things as members of congress. we've directed spending to study why people kill themselves, because we don't know for sure. isn't it interesting that most of the suicides take place in the western part of the united states. you would think it would be in dark places like maine and vermont where it's so dark and cold. but no, it's in the bright sunshine of the west. so we're learning a lot more. that has been so good to me as a person, and we have now funded projects around america where there are suicide prevention programs that are extremely important. there are suicide victims' programs where people get together after someone -- a loved one kills themselves. so that's something that i'm glad i worked on. finally, health care. 24 years ago one of my friends from las vegas called me, sandy jolly, and she said, i woul

i felt so fortunate i was able to spend hundreds of hours with my dad and talk to him almost every singlee talked about everything under the sun. he told me things i never knew. he asked about my life, about my friends' lives. we made lots of calls to family, to former colleagues in the senate and in the house, to former staff. he shared feelings he had not shared before with many of these people. it was a wonderful experience for me to listen to these conversations. and such a gift to them and to dad. my dad is the most generous person i have ever known. he was a giver, not a taker. he cared more about others than he did about himself. he told me he set a personal goal to help at least one person every day of his life. then he said, i'm not sure i've been able to meet my goal. i said, dad, you've got to be kidding. some days you help one person and other days you help 40,000 people. i think you've met and exceeded your goal. well, you may be right, he said. there's no one who helped -- there's no one he helped more than me. he's always been there for me through thick and through thin. he

i remember kind of the earliest conversation with my dad about world war ii experiences was that his mother was, as well as my grandmother, were on party lines. the conversation between my grandmother and missus dole was a terrible circumstance that her son had experienced in the battlefields of italy. my dad served in world war ii and northern africa and italy, was in the neighborhood and eqrequest one neighbor to anoth, one partyline participant to another. do you think there is a new way to find out how bob is doing. so my earliest recollection and understanding of the life was as a soldier, a member of the army, the person that served in world war ii and was horrifically injured. my view is, and i do not know this, but having known bob dole and seeing the consequences of his life, what i think is true is that experience, the near-death experience and expectation not to survive the endof the long road to recovery created in his mind at heart a different circumstance and result that had never happened. people talk about his life as a member of congress. he was elected to the house o

i feel so fortunate i was able to spend hundreds of hours with my dad and talk to him almost every, singleing under the sun. he told me things i never knew. he asked about my life, about my friends' lives. we made lots of calls to family. to former colleagues in the house and former staff. he shared feelings he had not shared before with many of these people. it was a wonderful experience for me to listen to these conversations and such a gift to them and to dad. my dad is the most generous person i have ever known. he was a giver, not a taker. he cared more about others than he did about himself. he told me, he set a personal goal to help one person every day of his life. then, he said, i am not sure i've been able to meet my goal. i said, dad, you've got to be kidding. some days you help one person and other days you help 40,000 people. i think you've met and exceeded your goal. well, you may be right, he said. there is no one he helped more than me. he's always been there for me, through thick and then. he believes in giving second chances. and i know that firsthand. he was my rock. my

my dad did not have time for that.ghbors we consider them surrogate grandparents and a when the girls would not have a christmas tree and we heard a knock on the door we open it and they are standing there with a huge box and inside was an artificial christmas tree complete with snow this california girl was mesmerized we put it together with all the magical lights and ornaments and it represented the sparkle beautiful symbol of the season of hope and prayer and blessings in the power of love. in time all prayers were answered to this day that remains our miracle each christmas we put up that artificial tree be because to us it is a symbol of that enduring hope of the love and faith of the guardian angels around us that they extend toward one another especially during the season and also the answer prayers spirit just finding the right balance was a struggle during childhood but the rivera family decided on a christmas hanukkah compromise. >> that is quite a concept but with the dad as a devout catholic and then the ob

i'm at my parents house to us, my dad, hugh members about grandpa. looking at our old photographs and watching and ask the film. i realize how little i really know about my grandfather, grandfather and his colleagues worked on the space suits they designed the space suits. that became the, the centerpiece of what the astronauts war and the mercury gemini, and the apollo program that neil armstrong buzz aldrin and all of the astronauts who followed them. who walked on the moon. i never quite realized, actually i always thought that, oh it was, it was just a very small part in this big machine. and actually i realize now who was actually a big part in the big machine. i think he and a lot of people were big parts in that machine. i think there were a lot of people who took the goals that were given them and they just went on achieved it. why did he say when we were born? i see, i don't even know was he a nice compa? yeah. clinical. yeah. you didn't. you didn't see a lot of him because he lived in texas and we were here already by the time you were born.

i did some marijuana because when my dad left there wasn't any authority. feed — because it one point we were 13 kids at home. 13? yeah. i've got 2a brothers and sisters. my dad never watch tv or use the remote, he was a busy man. and 89 nephews and they all call me santa. so i need to fight for them. i needed to play and do something, a job and having money so everything was possible then. i would try to make — using any opportunity to get money. there was something that happened in your childhood that i know has taken you many years to talk about. something that wasn't about you being defiant, being strong, running on the street, but actually about you as a very vulnerable boy. it happened when you were 13 years old. why have you decided to tell the world about it now? i decided because i had an extra push with a woman of my life and i was talking about toxic masculinity and to open myself and ifeel safe. and, she would say, "patrice, you are such a good person and funny, positive" but she said "i can feel something wrong with you." and i didn't want to kn

but i love my dad a great deal and he loved me. opening the shop come i was nervous actually to tell him i was going to go into business for myself because he was a meet cutter and he hated working with the public. i said i don't care you do for a living just to work with the public. so working in the bakery is fine i'm in the back. it's time too open my own cake shop so how am i going to tell my dad i will be working with the public? i'm in charge of everything. when i told him he said that's great. and he came in the very first day when we unlock the door and he was here every day since then. do you know how many phone calls i get? and then when david called that when the court granted search. it was ring. hangup. ring. hangup. but then my dad came down to help me through the remodel. we opened 1983. he passed away 1996. those three years were valuable to me because he would come in every day to have muffins and coffee. he is gregarious and working with the public that he would try to befriend you right off the bat. host: how is

i missed the last christmas with my dad and he . last christmas with my dad and he passed _ last christmas we had eight _ passed away in the summer. you know, we had eight zumba christmas what it was at _ we had eight zumba christmas what it was at the _ we had eight zumba christmas what it was at the same. everyone is hurting _ was at the same. everyone is hurtinu. , , ., ., ., , hurting. henry. the guardian to be fair is not saying _ hurting. henry. the guardian to be fair is not saying or _ hurting. henry. the guardian to be fair is not saying or demanding - fair is not saying or demanding anyone impose restrictions but it is kind of putting it out there in a way that is hard for chris whitty because he is adviser and is not allowed to say because is not how the relationship works, if i were the relationship works, if i were the prime minister i'll be doing this, hejust have the prime minister i'll be doing this, he just have to resent that advice in private with a range of options and ministers had to decide. but in a sense, politicians and i said to the labour spokesman earlier saying

i remember kind of the earliest conversation with my own dad about world war ii experiences was that bina dole, bob dole's mother was, as well as my grandmother, were on party lines, and the conversation between my grandmother and mrs. dole was the terrible circumstance that her son, bob dole, had experienced in the battlefields of italy. my dad, who served in world war ii and served in northern africa, italy, was in the neighborhood and request from one party to another, one party line participant to another, do you think there's any way that ray can find out how bob is doing. so my earliest recollection, my earliest understanding of the life of bob dole was as a soldier, a member of the army, a person who served in world war ii and was horrifically injured. and my view is and -- i don't know this but having known bob dole and having seen the consequences of his life, what i think is true is that that experience, the near death experience, the expectation not to survive and the long road to recovery created in bob dole, in his mind and heart, a different circumstance and a different

my dad is from lebanon. when the war started, my dad said let's move to egypt. we lived there for three years and four months exactly. we studied there, me and my sister. my dad opened a business and we started working and everything. then egypt started having problems. one day from nowhere my dad received a phone call. it was from a church in cairo, egypt, and they said we would like to see you because [inaudible] ready to leave for chicago. my dad didn't believe the phone call. he hung up and said someone is playing a game with me. he hung up the phone. then they called again. we went for the meeting and everything. from there we started the process of paperwork, passport, everything. then we just came as refugees. >> so you get to chicago. you get enrolled in sullivan. >> yeah. >> before sullivan, what was your first impression of chicago? what's going on in your mind? >> so i came o'hare, from o'hare right away to the house they rented for us. it was apartment, not a house. so it was all the way in really like bad shape house, but [inaudible]. because i told

i felt so fortunate i was able to spend hundreds of hours with my dad and talk to him almost every singleever knew. he asked about my life, about my friends' lives. we made lots of calls to family, to former colleagues in the senate and in the house, to former staff. he shared feelings he had not shared before with many of these people. it was a wonderful experience for me to listen to these conversations. and such a gift to them and to dad. my dad is the most generous person i have ever known. he was a giver, not a taker. he cared more about others than he did about himself. he told me he set a personal goal to help at least one person every day of his life. then he said, i'm not sure i've been able to meet my goal. i said, dad, you've got to be kidding. some days you help one person and other days you help 40,000 people. i think you've met and exceeded your goal. well, you may be right, he said. there's no one who helped -- there's no one he helped more than me. he's always been there for me through thick and through thin. he always had my back, even when i made mistakes and, believe me

and my parents met each other and fell in love and had me my dad and home state of virginia could not have married my mother because it had not yet passed in virginia. and i learned so much about apartheid to the individual on the black side of the equation and the white side. i wanted to do the same thing for the experience of growing up biracial in asia. i wanted to teach the reader about what it was like to grow up in southeast asia post- vietnam but also why i still believe america is worth it. america is worth fighting for. my sexual daughter abigail asked me the question. mommy you don't have legs. she wants me to teach her to ride her bike. but i can't run alongside of her to push the bike. so she said why couldn't somebody else's mommy or daddy go to iraq and lose their legs? why you? i wanted to show her america is worth it. democracy is worth it. it began me growing up has an american in southeast asia. to understand what a privilege it was that i was an american. but i can leave the war-torn country when i wanted to because i had the passport and another children could not

and my mom and dad actually found out they also had gotten a breakthrough covid. mom was quarantining at home, my dad had a fall, and even though it wasn't something that was that was too problematic, i mean, just in case my mom had him taken by ambulance to the hospital. well, because my dad was covid positive and tested as such, when he went in, they put him into quarantine, into isolation. as a result, it just felt like he was receding us farther and farther away. i think the fact that he was vaccinated for the fact that he's alive and that my mother is alive but i am enraged at the fact that this pandemic has continued so long. >> i contract illnesses very easily, though i am not considered immuno compromised. personally, the most dangerous illnesses for me are respiratory illnesses. this makes covid extraordinarily dangerous for me. >> my father, who is 89, has been in assisted living for a couple of years now and we had been very careful. my sister and my brother and all of our children had all been vaccinated before seeing my dad. in fact, no one could go se

my dad asked _ were stronger on women. my dad asked if_ were stronger on women.ked if i— were stronger on women. my dad asked if i was living as a man with— asked if i was living as a man with a — asked if i was living as a man with a woman and i always said if they— with a woman and i always said if they asked i would tell them _ if they asked i would tell them. that is exactly what happened. five years after i had — happened. five years after i had been _ happened. five years after i had been with a woman they asked — had been with a woman they asked and i said yes and then all hell— asked and i said yes and then all hell broke loose and my dad said some _ all hell broke loose and my dad said some things that he wished that be — said some things that he wished that he had not said, but he did not— that he had not said, but he did not know. again, people realty— did not know. again, people really did not know any better. we never— really did not know any better. we never stop talking or anything but there was a tension, and then my dad, he educated _ tension, an

it is an area the overtime is grown, but it's my dad got transferred to gainesville, it is still small place, it was more appalachia than it was atlanta. those values came up. myself, my brother, my mom worked with seniors rowing up in the home. it is interesting to me. a lot of people have these backgrounds. he didn't know what you didn't have. everything that we thought we needed. that was our background and my dad he was still alive by the way, he was a state trooper for 31 years read when he retired i had work ethic. he had almost two years of unused sick leave and vacation that he just went to work every day. that was embedded in me. it when i was growing up and we went to college, we thought it was going to be the politician, the lawyer and that was back at a time with l.a. law, everybody wanted to be lawyer. i was getting ready at that point, lisa and i had been married over 32 years. it started the journey, how did i get there. coming from the state troopers kid. when we went on vacation we went to the state park. for me it was growing up in the radio i saw the world. never thi

my dad's hometown. i spent eight hours trying to get my cousin on the line. saw her yesterday.e.- gave her a big hug. and she's engaged in the disaster recovery there. >> i can see it in your face. i'm sorry for your loss, and your family's loss, and what your state is going through. >> we feel america's love. we truly have gotten unprecedented support. we have a long way to dig out. we're tough people, but we're going to have to grieve together before we can rebuild together. >> governor, thank you. >> thank you. >> our thanks to the governor, joining us just before coming on the air tonight right here in mayfield, kentucky. >>> and kentucky isn't the only state facing immeasurable loss. the amazon warehouse in illinois with at least six people dead. an ef-3 tornado striking, with winds of up to 155 miles per hour. the company now identifying the workers who were lost. rob marciano from illinois tonight. >> reporter: tonight, the families of the amazon workers killed when a tornado tore through this illinois facility, in shock. >> i walked out of that buildi

and hit me and i just started to talk about my dad. my staff said i did not know that about you. and then i started with the ivf. and then one person said i went and tried ivf and i had a baby. so what are those constituents who have made me comfortable and trying to relate to them and i have been able to share meexperiences with them and i'm at a place i'm able to write the book because i can share the stories and learn to recognize these are not uniquely my stories but i hope people see themselves inn my story as the first person to go to college whether they had to fight to try. >> and then to see members that way. and then you have a young family. >> we have college tuition coming up. i can't stop working. [laughter] then that method of the phd. so being a senator is an amazing job that on —- but and doing my job makes me a better mom. and then you writing another book? rf>> that it right the book just to tell my story but to tell america story. and i write the book as a letter to my daughter men to speak to your child as an adultc

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>> my dad came and told my brothers and i.ng that your worst nightmare had come true. for a brief second, i thought she had committed suicide just because i knew how stressed out she was. but then i also knew how much she loved her family. >> everybody who knew teresa knew that. even sheriff kenneth ellis, who drove out to the crime scene, if that's what it was. corporal mark boyd, alabama bureau of investigation, met him there. this case was tuned of personal for you, sheriff. >> yes. my daughter and miss teresa and scott's daughter, they played softball together. >> you would see teresa at the ballpark. >> every game. it felt like part of my family was gone too. >> they had a look around the truck. no sign of a struggle. dusting revealed no viable fingerprints. there were no footprints. not even a loose hair. puzzling. was there any thought once you saw the scene that this was a suicide? >> there was things missing that prevented the suicide theory. >> like what? >> if you're going to commit suicide with a gun, it's usually

my own dad got to see honor built in his honor because bob dole made it possible. my guide came here on an honor flightst bob dole was there that day just like he was at almost every circumstance in which veterans were coming to washington d.c. particularly world war ii veterans bob dole didn't stand there for the glory of his service, he stood there to think others served in the war. he was there not to take the podium, not to be public official but to be the fellow soldier who served. lots of things we can command and express gratitude for what bob dole did, honoring veterans, he saw it as a lifetime responsibility and opportunity. it's only been a few years veterans coming to the world war ii memorial didn't get to shake the hands of bob dole. finally in age of 96, 95, became physically impossible to do that but he was there at every opportunity for as long as he could. he served 36 years in congress, 79 of his 98 as a public servant, servant of the nation in the military and in addition to the legislative accomplishmentsts, he was a dect soperson. he exhibited c

my dad didn't graduate from eighth grade. my mother never graduated from high school.earchlight was a town where the number one business wasn't whining -- mining. mining was gone. it was prostitution. i went to a school that started off with two rooms. grades one through four had a teacher. one teacher taught all eight grades. religion, there wasn't a church ever in that town. i've searched back and talked about the history of searchlight. i tell kids it doesn't matter how much money your parents have, how much education your parents have. don't be embarrassed about the house you have. i have a nice suit on now and a tie. i don't want people to think i just made it in politics. i have a successful business. i made enough money to put my kids through school. that's what i want people to understand. >> i want to get to some of that. there are so many more things i want to talk about. but before i get to your childhood and your life, let me ask you this, did you leave anything out? >> oh, lots of stuff. lots of stuff out. >> does that mean -- >> i left stuff out. my posit

>> my mom and my dad. >> your mom and dad? second. >> reporter: les zoeller was a detective back then. one of a grand total of two detectives in the beverly hills police department who worked homicides. >> how many murders occurred in beverly hills in those days? >> in those days, approximately two a year. >> reporter: detective zoeller was asleep that august night when his boss called. >> and he said, "come on in, we've had a murder." and i asked him for some information and he gave me the address of 722 north elm. >> reporter: zoeller drove to the mansion, walked inside. >> it was eerily quiet. and when i went into the den library, the first thing i noticed was jose menendez seated on the couch. he was slumped to one side, his head was to the one side. >> reporter: it was bad. very bad. >> i could immediately tell that his face was disfigured from the shotgun blast that he took to the back of the head. he was wearing shorts. and he had a shotgun blast to his thigh, blood soaked all the way down to the white couch. and then i