because how can we take care of our children when i'm working with stolen documents and he's in braziliayou know kind of very obviously homophobic remarks something you wouldn't say about a heterosexual couple. we're both parties, but i was very personally i mean with people talk about your children. it's kind of should be the the one limit. i know in political warfare and i was extremely angry by that and at the last minute they said, oh we like to put him on the show with you. do you mind? and i said, no, i don't mind because i wanted to confront him about these comments he had made. and they seated us. you know almost like millimeters away. i mean you couldn't have made a more combustible atmosphere if he tried and he did try. and right when the show began i said look before we begin i'm not going to talk about any music issues. i need to clear the air and i looked at him and i said i demand that you either. you know reaffirm your comments and you believe our children that we adoption should be returned to the shelter where we adopted them from or apologize and retract it. and he inst