they moved to camden martinique four months before their wedding date. life wasn't easy. >> throughout our whole relationship, money was always somewhat of an issue. >> rachel picked up work here and there. once she said, as a princess at disneyland, then worked sometimes too, but nothing steady. >> they kind of seemed to struggle financially a lot. you know, if anything, you kind of felt sorry for them, because they seemed like they were so excited to get married and start their life together. >> and at the apartments they settled right in. >> it got to the point where everybody was hanging out with each other, like every night. >> part of that circle was 26-year-old samuel herr, an army veteran who had fought in afghanistan and made it home to california. >> there was a couple of things that set sam apart from the other guys there. he seemed more responsible. >> sam was intent on earning his college degree, and that's how he met julie kibuishi. julie helped sam with his school work. >> she got after him if he wasn't studying because his grade reflected