lewis schafer, you're an old romantic, aren't you , on? i was romantic, aren't you, on? romantic anymore. don't think changing dating apps will have anything to do with it. is that is that it's too dangerous to date women today mean it's just it's too just dangerous it's the accusations the animosity, the acrimony , the divorce . i mean, acrimony, the divorce. i mean, even even with a beautiful woman here , i mean, it's just it's not here, i mean, it's just it's not it's not worth getting involved . lewis, i think you're telling us your life story that you've revealed a lot in that short answer . what revealed a lot in that short answer. what do you want stand romance to be? lewis how would you define romance ? well i think you define romance? well i think romance from a woman's point of view isn't the same as it is from man's point of view. i think from a woman's point of view, it's like it's like candy and prizes. it's like a going up to her and just sort of wooing her and then making her making him thinking her love, love him . i don't think that that can exist . i .