kathy soltani could hardly believed it when she received a call. >> that was so surreal.from our group, he called me and said, have you heard the news about gelareh bagherzadeh? >> kathy thought she was about to hear good news. >> i was so excited, i asked is she going to be engaged? >> he said no, obviously you haven't heard the news this morning or last night. and i said no, why the news? and then he told me -- i'm sorry. i couldn't speak after that. my voice just left my body. it was very said. anyway, i tried to talk but i couldn't get my voice -- [crying] i'm sorry. i couldn't speak after that. my voice just left my body. it was very said. anyway, i tried to talk but i couldn't get my voice -- i couldn't hear my own voice. finally i was yelling but this really faint voice was coming out >> gelareh bagherzadeh friend, founded just a speechless. >> hard to talk about her? >> sometimes it is. >> cory was among the last to find out. he was looking forward to seeing gelareh bagherzadeh later that day but he hadn't turned on the news before he drove over to her place >> th