abi smitton spent the day with them.son who is their soulmate. and ifound him when i was 17. he's just the most amazing person. we're just really, really connected, and still are. hi, darling! dorothy and melvin, a love story spanning nearly half a century. he carved a heart and our names in a tree... ..here. and every year that we used to go down, or every other couple of years, he'd take his penknife and re—carve it, because the moss had grown over on the tree. 15 years ago, melvin was diagnosed with a rare and degenerative brain condition called ataxia. he now needs help with everything. food, drinking, walking, mobility, washing — every single aspect of his existence every day derives from the care that i give him. dorothy had to give up work and become melvin�*s full—time carer. are you a little bit cold? do you want me to put the heating on? we're a team. we do it together. we always have. we do everything together. and we're such a close team. we're so connected. like, we know what each other�*s thinking, what eac