i had contact with kemia. job in the army and working her way up. she was a specialist -- specialist kemia hassel. >> kemia martin grew up in georgia. a member of the junior rotc in high school, she made a name for herself as an outstanding young cadet, and she won several awards -- junior cadet of the month, cadet of the year, leadership awards like unit commander. in 2015, while at fort carson in colorado, kemia met tyrone hassel. >> i was there when kemia and ty first met. ty was a gentleman, charming, smart. she liked him a lot. after probably like three or four months, i think it was serious. >> how did you hear about his relationship with kemia? >> when i heard of his relationship with kemia, he was getting engaged. >> not even a girlfriend? >> not a girlfriend. when he told me he was getting married, i was like, "is you getting married for money in the military, or are you getting married because you love her?" >> you say "for the money," what do you mean? >> because in the military, i believe that you