and travis alexander, when they first met, probably felt he was every bit her counterpart. he was a successful insurance salesman, handsome, charismatic. dave holte worked with travis and was close to him. >> good friend, close friend? >> very good friend. >> best friend? >> it is funny, i have seen numerous people come forward and say, hey, he was my best friend. that is the type of guy travis was he made everybody feel like you were his best friend. >> according to his friends, travis was more than a bit of a ladies man, but this time, travis was out of his league. >> jodi became travis's drug . he was able to get something from her when he could not get anywhere else with the good, wholesome, mormon girls he typically dated here in arizona . >> which was what, not just sex, crazy sex? >> over-the-top, over-the-top stuff. >> jodi used sex to try to control travis. at first she tried to be this good girl with morals and values. that did not work, so she turned on the sex. >> and then had travis, a devout mormon, tied up in knots, breaking the church's law of chastity, that