do, or if you're like paul scanlon, a swimmer who swam at university of pennsylvania with leah slash, will thomas had to change in a locker room with him 18 times a week. you will be told if you go to the university that you need to seek counseling her, not him. so the metoo sideways glance, which went way too far, that that is a thing of the past. now all a guy has to do is say i'm a i'm a girl. he doesn't even have to put on a dress. yes, he makes it so much easier for me. he just self ids, right? you just walk right in and you say, well, i'm a woman and you can ogle whoever you want. cat, you know, your husband is a veteran and a very upstanding, moral dude. if he was on the subway and he saw something go down, he would probably act. i would assume. right. i think he would, honestly. and the crazy thing is, is i don't really know many men like that anymore, though of the guys i've dated, he's literally the only one who i can say that about. the rest would be like, i better get away from her in case something happens in this vicinity. i'm not even joking. everyone's a yeah, and like. i, i remem