wesley hadsell: if she went somewhere, she would normally tell us where she was going. andrea canning: so wesley said he sent aj a text of his own. i'd asked her very specifically, where are you? what are you doing? did you get any response? i got responses, but she wouldn't tell us where she was at. she said she needed time. she needed space. andrea canning: later that evening, aj's mom returned home from work. aj wasn't there, but a note in her handwriting was. what did it say? it said, dear madre, with everything that's going on, it's a lot to deal with. andrea canning: both parents knew aj was dealing with a lot of stress. it was her freshman year in college, which proved to be harder than she thought. plus, she was breaking up with her boyfriend, josh campbell. was she in love with this boy? she was head over heels. he was the one. could you see that she was hurting from the breakup? yes. she was devastated. andrea canning: also devastating, right before spring break, aj learned her dad, wesley, had started abusing drugs. aj's mom asked him to leave the house, forci