is not always how i intended it. it's all perception and how you read it. tiffany: and it's about your family dynamics too. because my family, our entire family is sarcastic. like, and we -- but when outsiders come to meet us, they're like, "oh my gosh, you guys are so mean to each other." it's not, it's light hearted for us so now we used to give this disclosure like, okay, listen, we're all a little sarcastic so just be ready. pam: just be ready. tiffany: but when kids are in that situation, you can't give that same disclosure so if they hear me getting a little snippy with my teenager, then my five-year-old goes to school and

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