and this week with the supreme court. >>> they're going to hear the challenge to prop 8 that made gay marriage illegal, what's happening with that right now? >> i'm waiting with everybody else with baited breath. i think it's time has come and if we don't figure it out, certainly the next generation knows there's nothing to be frightened up. >> i do want to say, you know, with the election now, there's a resurgent in hope again and i hope it's a time where there's more bipartisanship and it's less about winning and people coming together and dealing with the issues. >> wouldn't that be nice. >> it's a must. it's a must. we're in a precarious place. >> you guys once famously said that you would hold off getting married until everybody could get married and now i know now you're engaged, which everybody is very excited about. >> are they pressuring you at all to set a date? are they getting on you about