we've lost the ability to have a civil discourse really just about anything. as soon as you start talking, somehow it veers off course. and i've seen -- i've got family that sits on both sides of the spectrum, right and left. greg: right. >> and on the left, it's pretty hard core left. and i just want to have dinner, right? you just want to get together and enjoy family and everything, and you can't do it. it's very, very difficult. we're not approaching civil war status, i don't think that's ever going to happen. by the way, if it did, the left would get its ass kicked. [laughter] [applause] but i think we do need to step back, take a breath and do exactly what you say. next time you're in a conversation just realize, hey, look, we've seen a lot worse times. and it's not the death of the republic every time the administration takes an action. greg: you know, tom, is it too much to expect the left to meet the right like finish not even halfway with. i'd be happy if 10 %. because...