it put cold chills on me. the one thing i asked people to do is make it personal. almost everyone knows somebody who has served and a lot of people know somebody who has perished. think about that individual person. not this is the 1.1 million have died of the years but think about that one person that you may know and enjoy their memory and let them live on through you and abide by your actions as a medal of honor recipient, david bell if he has set, by taking inventory of your own life. >> that's beautifully put an end great advice and we are going to talk about acts of kindness later in the show. jillian, i want to get back to the president's speech. did he hit the right tone and what did you make of his message and his remarks? >> the tone and at the delivery and the contents of the speech were right on point. of course giving a speech on memorial day is one of the most important things the president of the united states does every single year. president trump did a fine job. that...