joining us now, finance editor for the "today" show and personal finance expert jean chatzky. also with us from "the new york times," catherine rampell and her piece in the upcoming "the new york times" magazine is called lean in dad how shared diaper duty could stimulate the economy. this is how do you it just so you know. >> stop it. >> sweet thing. you say, catherine, that actually there's something about looking for someone who will share the responsibilities. this is about the concept in "lean in", her book. >> there's been debate about the role of women in the workplace and how you make it easier for them to achieve more in their careers that cheryl sandburg has been vocal about and a number of high profile women. >> a lot of debates. the concept in cheryl's book was about finding someone who is going to share the