>> she answered the phone call her, text messages. i could see that the windowpane was broken. the glass was on the ground. >> a valentine's day that started with roses and ended in a different shade of red. >> everything stopped. i was just in shock. >> we knew that there was somebody bad out there doing something. >> she was a wife, a mother, a missionary. >> to me, it sounds like a state. >> she probably was. >> but something had been happening behind closed doors. >> there is nothing more important to me than you and this relationship. >> was it love? >> this was his valentine's day present. >> or hate? >> one shot to the head.