this way, perchance? she's not the queen, frank. how about not talking with your mouth full? how about you jumpin'-- i'm just trying to enjoy god's bounty. let me help you, deb. oh, that's ok. i got it. so you want dessert now or later? oh, now, dear. 'cause i have something across the street. i already have-- i'll be right back. marie, you shouldn't have bothered. oh, nonsense. it isn't every day that we have someone lik you with us. ray, would you stop it! so, uh... .. may i ask you a question that's been on my mind for quite some time? sure, frank. it's a rare opportunity for me to talk to someone of your vocation. which leads me to my question.