the same issues when alice walker wrote her book.or once focus on my part of the world and talk about what is really happening? because i end the essay by saying this, i don't say come and invade me and rescue us, because we don't need to be rescued, because women are getting their arms broken fighting alongside the men, but when you come to talk to our govmts, and they say it is our culture, and mind your own business and i say, this is not made by women. don't fall victim to the cultural relativism and last time on the show, i described rick santorum as the american s salafi, and of course there is violence against women, and we talked about wava. >> earlier on the show last week we talked about a woman faced with tissue of rate in the armed services, so as i read the atrocities, they feel horrifying, but more honest than we are honest with ourselves. >> yes, a time to make the connections and say, i have to focus on the community now, but a it is beginning by poking the painle places and ah, you made us look bad, but when the ah f