they determine the groom is not having a seizure., back up! >> stuff went crazy real quick. >> officers are trying to get the crowd to back up so they can help the groom. but when the groom sees police, he starts slugging away. >> trying to persuade him to take a ride to the hospital to get checked out. for some reason he just didn't want to have it. >> while the police are trying to control the aggressive groom, his brand-new brother-in-law leaps into the fray. >> i pulled him to the ground, not knowing the stretcher was right there. >> officer jackson tries to help his fellow officer by tasing the brother-in-law. >> i hear officer jackson behind me yelling, taser, taser. >> but officer jackson can't tase when another cop is in the line of fire. >> if one prong went into me and other prong went into the suspect, the electricity would go through both of us. >> the groom blocks the taser. >> he hit it out of my hand, and it went into the crowd. luckily nobody got hit. >> suddenly, the groom passes out. >> who shot the son-of-a-gun. >>

and clean the ears and the works. >> typically a shelter wouldn't have grooming? >> not at all. and these dogs are treated with the utmot -- utmost care that others can't provide. this is a shampoo to bring out the luster. and i feel satisfied in helping the shelter pets be adopted and to be a part of such a wonderful staff, from the top all the way down. if she passes our evaluation, she will stay until she's adopted. if you are interested in adoption and don't want to put them to sleep, that means at a last resort, we will give you a call before putting to sleep. you are not bound to the dog, and we would give you a call, and it's an actual adoption and cost $107 and it will be your dog. >> the volunteers to meet are the unsung heroes in this field that take the animals to hope and nurse them to get strong enough to come down and rehome. without volunteers, i would have to be honest to say this wouldn't be much more than a pound. we thank god that we have the number of committed people coming down and helping us out, it makes all the difference in the world. >>

and look at our grooming program and volunteer program and many say, hey, this

what happened here was grooming.here these predators identify a child, become mentors, they're usually children that they're having a little difficulty. they're at risk children. through the second mile program he was able to identify these children. then give them gifts, establish a trust, initiate physical could not dhakt eventually leads to sexual contact. and that is very common in these types of investigations. >> i want to bring in clinical psychologist jeff gardere in new york to talk more about these cases. we have to say if these allegations are true, this is about a man in a position of power who preyed upon vulnerable children. many of whom as part of this grand jury program that we read, he met through his charity. the key word is vulnerable. >> these were at risk chides were having emotional issues, perhaps financial issues, and therefore grooming these particular kids who worked for if this happened, for jerry sandusky in a way that che coul take advantage of them much easier. >> let's talk more about t

kathleen, tell me about this grooming.here a guy picks out a target for sexual abuse? in this case, some horrible abuse. >> yes. every trained child abuse investigator knows about grooming. it's a very common technique among sexual predators. and what it is is they start first by gifts, they move, then into familiarity with the child, saying, you know, they know their favorite color or their favorite teacher or certain problems that they may be having with someone else at school, then they move into the most heinous phase which is a zone of trust. they basically isolate the child. they make the child feel like no one else, they can't trust no one else, no one else loves them, no one else cares for them like their attacker, and no one else understands them like the way that they do. now the child is blocked off and basically backed into a corner where that child feels like he has no way out. and there's no one to go to, except consequently enough, their attacker. >> and then they use another pattern, where people like sandu

wants to have the bride and groom on to talk about their mishap. this time it seems worth the risk. >> carissa wheeler, who plays the bride, and josh cobitt, the groom, went in character. one of them actually says, i kind of believed it was real but now seeing you guys together, you would totally make a great couple. >> well, i had my doubts too. but now that i see you, you guys are truly in love. i feel bad for the news anchors digging themselves in into a hole without knowing they were digging themselves into a hole. >> we called them up and said we would love to come back on the show. it wasn't real. can you chastise us or whatever you want. they declined to have us back on their show. >> you can take a joke so far. and then you can take it too far. they clearly went over the edge and fell over it into the pool of bad will. as it were. >> maybe not with the audience though. while the completed movie wasn't a hit, this dip was viewed over 100 million times online and on tv. real or fake, it was a viral success. >> oh, my god! oh, my god! >> anoth

she claims sandusky groomed him for abuse. >>> police, celebrity scents. from brittany to j.lo, taylor swift to justin bieber. celebrities with a nose for business are making millions, selling gray branss to fans. but what exactly goes into these bottles that's so irresistible? >>> and ghost hunters. abandoned caves, empty palaces. what lurks in these dark corners? we go in with believers who say the answer is out of this world. >> announcer: from the global resources of abc news, with terry moran, cynthia mcfadden and bill weir in new york city, this is "nightline," november 16th, 2011. >> good evening. we begin tonight with a major development in a child abuse scandal that continues to grow. yet another mother has come forward, saying her son was adopted by the now disgraced former penn state coach, jerry sandusky. she says sandusky used the children's charity he set up and ran to gain access to her son and others. sandusky is charged with 40 counts of molestation and abuse. here's abc's jim avila. >> it was unnatural from the beginning. >> reporter: she

, groom those children for mr.sannusky's purposes."sandusky arressed oo novembee fifth....nd ccarged with 40 felony counts, including the sexual abuse of eight minors. he's not expected in court the criiiial compllint, victim number one slept at the sandusky homm and spent time withhhim wwekly.the alleged victim's mother, speaking with a-b-c news.mother says: "you like 'well, i just didn't know - what to do and you juss can't tell jerry 'no.'"the case continuing to unfold.bard says: ""here is a lot ff information that we s students don't know. ann it's definitell been a frustrating and confusing time for us." (miller on cam tag) sandusky remains free on 100-thousand dollars bail.meantime, he's still collectiig his nearly 60- thousand-dollar year pension from thh universityat penn state, david lee miller, fox news. p3 governor corbett says pennsylvania state law needs to change....to make sure allegations of child sex abuse, are reeorted to police. a shhw f suuport today for coach, joe paterno.this was the scene out

. >> reporter: it begins with the abuser grooming his potential victim. >> with a boy, we're talkingbout sports, it may be special attention in the coaching process. maybe special opportunities to see the coach outside of the confines of the normal coaching relationship it might even be special favors in terms of how much playing time someone might get. >> reporter: a many of them don't speak up about it. >> the most common emotion that a child may feel when thinking about disclosing abuse is shame. they often feel that it is their fault, that they have responsible. and often the abuser will capitalize on this and help the child to feel that it is their fault, that they are responsible. >> reporter: theo fleury was a national hockey league star who says it happened to him. >> from the time i was 14 to the time i was 17 years old, i was molested, probably about 150 times by my coach. >> reporter: fleury was a junior hockey player in canada, with his sights set on the nhl, when his coach sexually abused him. >> 400 miles away from home, you know? he was -- this guy was everything to me

they penned the book "how not to marry the wrong guy." >> it doesn't matter who the groom is. if you are more caught up in the party planning, details that might be a sign that you are married the wrong guy. >> reporter: they say while kardashian may be famous, her distorted vision of marriage is part of a new trend. where did kim go wrong? >> she ignored her gut feeling. >> reporter: they've uncoverered the top reason women forgo their intuition and say i do when they are really thinking i don't. rationale number one, i don't want to waste the time i have invested in this relationship. number two, all my friends are getting married. i don't want to be alone. number three, he'll change after we get married. and number four, it's too embarrassing or expensive to call it off. but they say the biggest blind spot of all is wedding planner fever. take 31-year-old divorcee christine. how did you feel walking down this aisle on the day of your wedding? >> though it was everything i had dreamed about, there was something missing. that day, i still felt an emptiness. >> reporter: she a

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. >>> well, coming up the army is considering grooming rules that could impact everything from nail care to body art. >>> and did you see this? the whirlwind courtship, high-profile wedding and now divorce. how the latest cpltoe to de money off theirple love before the dirce pers were filed u >>> brian williams will host "rock center." it's offering long form stories from correspondents both with nbc news and elsewhere including ted koppel and harry smith. "rock center with brian williams" premieres tonight on nbc bay area. >>> soldiers could come home to stricter grooming rules. they want to see less ink on soldiers especially on the hands and neck. it was relaxed in the height of fighting in iraq and afghanistan. and tattoos were allowed there. now new requirements could ban certain tattoos, earrings, and frenchman cures for women. it could also mandate shorter hair for men. >>> well, that didn't last long. kim kardashian has filed for divorce. filed for divorce today just 72 days after tying the not with her basketball-playing husband kris humphries. and the marriage was quick. but it

has to do with grooming. turns out men spend more time grooming than women. deutsch, looking at you. men are in the showeror 22 minutes, shave for 18 minutes, 14 minutes, cleansing, toning and moisturizing, ten minutes? >> no, by the way, i from start to finish, i know this is hard to believe with my gentile looks, seven minutes, shower to out the door. >> it takes you seven minutes to do your hair. >> listen to me i have been with many different women in my life and have yet to find a woman who takes less time. >> i can get out of the bathroom faster than any guy. sorry, men take longer. >> i've been doing it in 15 minutes. >> all right, wait a minute, all right, i don't believe any of you that it's that fast. okay, but anyway, one last topic, sorry, one last topic. happy birthday donny. our last topic. ♪ happy birthday to you >> don't sing it. we have a cake. >> oh, that's so sweet. >> and donny, this is your gift, we were talking about male grooming, i want to put a picture up as you can see, this was donny. >> oh my goodness. >> and so please come clean,

that the missing files may make it tough to determine whether sandusky used charity money to recruit, groom or travel with possible victims no. comment on a separate report, nbc news citing a senior law enforcement force saying the fbi may be looking to open its own investigation into whether sandusky broke federal law, whether he transported a minor across state lines to commit child abuse. one boy, victim number 4, says he was repeatedly abused including out of state bowl games. there's a district attorney who investigated the allegations in 1998 and decided not to prosecute. it turns out,there's mo paperwork or decision mem row laying out the decisions why he declined to prosecute. there's no files on the case whatsoever and possibly never kept any files. we'll ask our legal panel approximate that. as for the decision memo, the da insigss he searched for one. griker vanished six years ago and declared legally dead. the d.a.'s office has to comply with laws. penn state doesn't. the university made none of the records available to the media. none of them. tonight reacting to the ncaa inves

he set up a charity for broken kids is grooming some for abuse. he's now faces 40 criminal charges and there's breaks news on that. we just spoke with sandusky's attorney and learn new details about how his client plans to fight charges against him. before we do that, we want to run through the evidence, and there's an luflt of it suggesting so many people so early on knew so much about such revolting allegations, it seemingly did little about it. tonight joe paterno is out and university president is out. last night a lot of students did venting about that oampus caing for paterno to play one last game in weekend. overturning a tv truck, chanting one more game and university cheer we are penn state. for the past few days, a lot of people are asking what is penn state? overnight joe paterno, joepa to his followers, who enjoyed -- who believed in the image that he enjoyed for so many years, the image of a no-nonsense, academics first do the right thing coach, he told protestors to go home and hit the books. >> get a good night's sleep, study. we st

. >> they groom the families as well. >> they groom and pick. and then when i was 12, a cousin, who was later charged with other crimes and went to jail. and then when i was 16. i was a varsity cheerleader in high school, and there was a football coach who i understand for legal reasons, we can't name. but he is -- he waited for us. and he picked young women around the same age, around the same height, complexion. you know, the women that i -- the young women that i knew in high school, we all looked alike. so this guy had an m.o.. >> when you say that, speaking to a friend who is a profiler for the fbi yesterday, and he did child sex crimes. and he says usually all the victims usually look alike, have the same traits, and once they get to a certain age where they no longer look like what he likes or she likes, because sometimes it's women, they let them go, right? >> sure. >> and the things you were saying, the triggers and all that, what they do about grooming the families, and people are afraid to talk about it. if you listen to the young man

he set up a charity for children of broken homes allegedly grooming some for abuse. he is facing 40 criminal charges but out on bail right now. there is breaking news on that t. our jason keller just spoke with his attorney and is learning how his client plans to fight the charge against him. before we do that, we want to run through the evidence. there's a lot of evidence suggesting that so many people so early on knew so much about such revolting allegations, yet seemingly did so little about it. tonight joe paterno is out, so is the university president, he's out. last night a lot of students did a lot of venting about that on campus calling for joe paterno to play one last game this weekend. they overturned a tv truck, chanted one more game and the university cheer we are penn state. the past few days a lot of people have been asking what is penn state. overnight joe paterno looked and sounded like the image he enjoyed for so many years, the no-nonsense, academics first do the right thing approach. he told protesters to go home and hit the books. >> go get a good

so the whole project and the probe have become known as food is groomed meaning soil in russian costing around one hundred fifty six million dollars it will become russia's first interplanetary mission since one thousand nine hundred ninety six it will take eleven months for it to reach the martian albeit and another six months to approach focus immediately after touchdown a remote the controlled arm must sink its claws into the unknown. and if we are nobody knows how hard the surface is going to be but will be able to collect it whether it is sound or rock. the return rocket will make its way back to earth straight away with a fast and a sample from a martian moon on board this mission is one of the most complicated ever planned what you see here is two parts of what was groomed the whole structure weighs over thirty thousand kilos but only seven kilos placed right on the top of the return rocket will make it back to earth all this just four hundred grams of precious extraterrestrial soil however the rocket will also carry some unusual passengers russian and u.s. scientists are sending

second mile, which he allegedly perverted, turning it into a place, according to authorities, for grooming young victims. in his statement today, joe paterno said, "this is a tragedy, one of the great sorrows of my life. i wish i had done more." that's what troubles some of his staunchest supporters. paterno himself has said, talking about football, "throughout my life i've always had the ability to concentrate on what has to be done. if i can do something about it, i go after it and try to get it done by giving it my best shot." on field and off, paterno has always preached doing the right thing, even if it's not easy. >> the thing that i feel strongly about, whether it's football and you want to learn something, is you listen. we've lost civility in this country. nobody listens anymore. >> well, the suspicion for some of the outright allegations that when it came to his former assistant's alleged abuses, he did not do the right thing, that he did not give it his best shot, that instead he did the bare minimum, that he kicked the can to his superior. questions campus-wide to school janito

i think, jeff, you'll agree with me that these predators oftentimes groom children. so it starts with the touching, i starts with the hand on the knee and it typically progresses. i've tried cases where pedophiles have showered with children. it is just so classic to me. i think if you speak to anyone that's tried these types of cases and anyone that's an expert in this area, they will tell you that it's just such a classic fact pattern for him to admit that he showered with these children and horsed around and confessed to touching them. i, in my mind, that's already misdemeanor child sex abuse. i disagree when the attorney says nothing criminal happened here. that in and of itself is criminal. i'm flabbergasted. >> mark, i know the job of the defense attorney to defend his or her client, come up with explanati explanations. what do you make of this attorney's excuse for sandusky showering with young boys that this is just what jocks do and this is what people do after they work out? >> well, remember some of the things that he said what we've seen in the last nine

. >> a grooming technique that is dog gone different.next. ♪ we own the night ♪ oh yeah ♪ >> beautiful shot of the skyline there. >> yes, yes. >> i understand you, unlike another anchor on the show who will remain nameless -- rob -- actually like animals. the next story speaks to you. >> i love animals, i have three dogs, i love cats. but my dogs don't really have the skill that a beagle from ash vi, north carolina does. john lee of wos, shows us a very sharp canine. >> come here. come on, girl. >> reporter: she may not stand out in a crowd. but her owner says it's inside where the magic happens. >> it is just little objects that she finds laying around. >> reporter: she hears the grinding every day. switching from one leg to the other. but the certified dog behavior consultant says there is something sophisticated at work. colleagues agree. >> the first case i ever heard of, of a dog using a tool. >> reporter: she believes she is grooming her forelegs with the pebbles. >> we are not sure how she discovered that a small object made a goo

the missing files may make it tough to determine whether sandusky used charity money to recruit, to groom, or travel with possible victims. no comment either on a separate report. nbc news citing a senior law enforcement source saying the fbi may be looking to open its own investigation into whether sandusky broke federal law, whether he transported a minor across state lines to commit child abuse. one boy identified in the grand jury report is victim number four says repeatedly abused him, including at how far bowl games. and then there's ray ricker, who investigated alleged victim six's allegations back in 1998 and decided not to prosecute. it turns out, there is no paperwork or decision memo laying out the reasons why he declined to prosecute. in fact, we've learned the d.a.'s office has no files on the case whatsoever and possibly never kept any files. we'll ask our legal panel about all that. as for the decision memo, an assistant d.a. tells us he searched for one to comply with pennsylvania right to know laws, but found nothing. ricker, you'll remember, vanished six years ago. he wa

now number 13 is a lucky number for this bride, who lured her groom to the altar. >> this is my kindve story, because in this story, the woman is in charge. this is sheree butler. any day of any given week of any given year, her boyfriend, david shumark would ask her to marry him. he wanted to marry this woman. and she said, one day, one day i'll marry you. so she planned a little surprise. he thought he was coming to a family picnic. and instead, she surprised him with a wedding. >> he showed up in a fishing shirt because he's on a fishing trip and she was standing there in a black and white wedding dress, waiting along with 40 family and friends and he had no idea. >> i would have passed out. i'm getting like dry mouth thinking about it. >> but he wanted to marry her. she knew it wouldn't be a surprise or he would faint and run away. >> to find out more about this unlikely wetting day. we have sheree butler, i should say sheree butler shumark with us. >> i had four weeks to plan it. while dave was away working. every time he would ask me, he would say, one day i'll just drag you do

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