anyone else new have i gone on too long? thank you very much for coming happy new year, everybody. i love the fact that we are doing a tournament here at the center. when i was in eighth grade i played on a basketball teechl. team. i have to admit i wasn't very good at it. i always aspired to be an nba

anyone else new have i gone on too long? thank you very much for coming ♪ >> i am so looking forward to the street fair tomorrow. >> it is in the mission, how are we going to get there? we are not driving. >> well what do you suggest? >> there are a lot of great transportation choices in the city and there is one place to find them all, sfnta.com. >> sfmta.com. >> it is the walking parking, and riding muni and it is all here in one place. >> sitting in front of my computer waiting transportation options that is not exactly how i want to spend my saturday night. >> the new sfmta.com is mobile friendly, it works great on a tablet, smart phone or a lap top, it is built to go wherever we go. >> cool. >> but, let's just take the same route tomorrow that we always take, okay? >> it might be much more fun to ride our bikes. >> i am going to be way too tired to ride all the way home. >> okay, how about this, we can ride our bikes there and then we can take muni home and it even shows us how to take the bikes on the bus, so simple rig

anyone else new have i gone on too long? thank you very much for coming good morning, everybody. lots of people know each other here, wonderful. it will be a great day. welcome, everybody, welcome to san francisco. to some of you, welcome to the presidio, welcome to this absolutely gorgeous futures without violence center. i want to start by thanking futures without violence and esther solar for giving us this beautiful space to meet in today. is esther here? i haven't seen her. we'll thank her later. they made this space available for us. good morning, my name is me linda hague for those of you who don't know me. i

anyone else new have i gone on too long? thank you very much for coming>> good morning. today is majority opinion in the perry case where i live by chief justice roberts and held at the u.s. constitution which governs the appeal to parties that suffer an injury. at the a leaves in place that the fundamental marriage reporters for same sex partners in california have's violated their rights. this has no place in california but the proponents my office is prepared to litigate cabins any delay equal it for all medical examiners. this is what we've been fighting for in san francisco over the course of 9 years.

anyone else new have i gone on too long? thank you very much for coming ♪ >> i am so looking forward to the street fair tomorrow. >> it is in the mission, how are we going to get there? we are not driving. >> well what do you suggest? >> there are a lot of great transportation choices in the city and there is one place to find them all, sfnta.com. >> sfmta.com. >> it is the walking parking, and riding muni and it is all here in one place. >> sitting in front of my computer waiting transportation options that is not exac

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anyone else new have i gone on too long? thank you very much for coming>> good morning. today is majority opinion in the perry case where i live by chief justice roberts and held at the u.s. constitution which governs the appeal to parties that suffer an injury. at the a leaves in place that the fundamental marriage reporters for same sex partners in california have's violated their rights. this has no place in california but the proponents my office is prepared to litigate cabins any delay equal it for all medical examiners. this is what we've been fighting for in san francisco over the course of 9 years. we've been honored to stand next to the american foundation for equal rights and kate jones and led by ted olsen and they did an absolutely we have job and with the legal team. the marriage of equal it movement started in massachusetts by when gaffe convenient took on this structural. it's been a long struggle and we're glad it once in a while we'll have the equal marriage here. with that i'll be happy to answer any questions the media has. (clapping) >> the opinion tha

anyone else new have i gone on too long? thank you very much for coming good morning, everybody. lots of people know each other here, wonderful. it will be a great day. welcome, everybody, welcome to san francisco. to some of you, welcome to the presidio, welcome to this absolutely gorgeous futures without violence center. i want to start by thanking futures without violence and esther solar for giving us this beautiful space to meet in today. is esther here? i haven't seen her. we'll thank her later. they made this space available for us. good morning, my name is me linda hague for those of you who don't know me. i was appointed by president obama a little more than two years ago to be united states attorney and it is my incredible honor to represent the president, the obama administration here in the northern district of california. welcome to the stop bullying summit. i'm a federal prosecutor so it may seem odd that here we are talking about bullying and we asked all of you to be here and i want to explain the origin of that and why this happened. you people, everybody in this

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anyone else new have i gone on too long? thank you very much for coming >> you're watching quick bites, the show that is san francisco. and today you're in for a real treat. oh, my! food inspired by the mediterranean and middle east with a twist so unique you can only find it in one place in san francisco. we're at the 55th annual armenian festival and bizarre. this is extra special not only because i happen to be armenian, but there is so much delicious food here. and i can't wait to share it with all of you. let's go. armenia, culture and cusine has had much cultural exchanges with its neighbors. today armenian food infuses he flavor from the mediterranean, middle east, and eastern europe. >> this is our 55th year and in san francisco we're the largest armenian food festival and widely recognized as one of the best food festivals in the area. we have vendors that come up from fresno, from los angeles showing off their craft. we really feel like we have something for everyone in the neighborhood and that's really what it is

i think she's in her 40s. congratulations to her. >> she's just gone to pot these days, hasn't she? 's hard looking like these two. >> wasn't he in "unfaithful"? >> yes. that's one of the few movies i own. >> she is truly one of the most beautiful women on the planet. >> they were married in france. gorgeous wedding. but the real wedding story is jimmy kimmel's wedding. he married one of the co-head writers. who shows up but gabourey sidibe. she stepped out in a full on wedding gown. >> did she come down the aisle? >> no, she did not come down the aisle. that's what i had heard. >> that's genius. >> she took people by surprise certainly and she did change eventually but -- when you are jimmy kimmel, you have to expect that game on. gabourey has always been a good sport. he does all these videos with celebrities and she's in almost all of them. >> is there a new hot couple? >> jenny mccarthy and donny wahlberg. i would show you a clip because it got racy and kind of dirty real quick. >> hoda would love that. >> he whispered dirty things into her ear. this is part of the show. >> she l

toronto and i am here to the two situations, well one i am an advocate for taxi drivers and two, i have gone to religious services and other activities at the the habad and i first want to state that it is not a traffic problem on that street and i have never seen kids go out in the street or even on the sidewalk. as i said most of the kids are going to either walk or bike to this school and or participate in the other activities there. so i think that this whatever this information is off, i have never seen an accident, and i have gone many times of going to use the dry cleaners over tofvisit a friend and if you want to worry about it, worry about the fact that they are lowering it two lanes both directions further down that is going to be problem. but over here, i have never seen traffic problems and congestion and i take that all of the time as a cab driver and also as going to go from the valley to the other part of chavez to visit a friend. >> next because as someone who loves the potash's pass over cooking she can do that just as good as running a preschool then you have an excellent s

i get to play with it. >> you spin your web and you -- oh, dog gone it. oh, that's right. mary. mary o. i think i'm in the wrong movie. >> but keep going. >> the long arm of james taylor just came and he grabbed me by the scruff of neck. dog gone it, some -- some -- some causes were meant to be fought. you once believed in lost causes. that's right, mr. payne, yeah, i'm in the right movie now. >> mr. payne. dog gone it. you have the lessons won. >> oklahoma. >> a plane. >> bill, you've slept at the lincoln memorial on many cold nights with hobo carl. is corporate tyranny the reason why people vandalize it? >> no, that was my vomit. it was a rough night. not really aiming when you have as much stuff as mohan puts in one. >> i thought the incredible hulk was -- >> she mumbles it so we don't have to bleep it. >> jim carrey is canadian. he's canadian. enough said. gun control, vaccine, sugar, he can take it all and shove it back in the maple syrup coated p hole. i said it because someone has it. >> i can't believe it. >> all right. that was poetic. if you have a comment on the show, e-mail u

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i have gone to a number of meetings to get information. but most important my family who live out of town know that i have some support and they know where we can go if they need how to help me with the things i will begin to need >> thank you very much madam next please. good morning. i'm the which you have had of san francisco village. the growing number of adults often referred to as the silver tsunami are supposed to challenge the social security. the city and county san francisco will need to be prepared to address the significant increase of older adults. san francisco village provides a service that allows them to stay in the communities they love. we're requesting this tungs funding. it will allow us to reach that more people and empower them to remain independent as they age. we hope to double our membership next year. we hope to reduce the fees. on behalf of our members our families and our future members i thank you for your thoughtful consideration >> thank you very much. next speaker please. i'm a homeless man in fess francisco

old for the role but he was wonderful i saw her sit we were down to shoot it almost and what have i. gone there was a heart break the money fell apart. oh it was tax money money and and now moved on to another film and it was the end of it i never thought i'd get made but i told ron kovic if it ever does happen if i ever get lucky i'll come back and we'll do it as sort of a couple if you go around covert kids great shape people to run live one hundred sixty five years old he's in a wheelchair for all these years and he looks still like that. he's strong he's a strong just as tom cruise would you say honestly he's the hardest working i. tom cruise i'd say he's moved up there he loves the work right the police show to him in the they devote you know tom cruise is will go after this thing until he gets it he was in that wheelchair around l.a. los angeles and new york he was trying to he melded into the role with ron are you workaholic yourself. when i do the work you know i don't want to become one of those people who does a lot of busy stuff with it means something i wrote perfectionist to

. >> i am karylna, i have gone to girl's 2000 and i learned they are there when you need them. say your parents are not here, and you can call them and they are there for you any time. they don't leave you out and like i was working at the garden. i don't work there no more, but they are still there for you even though you are not a part of the area. they are a lot of help. they give you great advice. i can go to them when i need them. i really love it there. and we really like it because we need more money to help us go to trips. like to go to nevada and travel and see the world. you know, that's about it. [applause] >> hello. my name is candace peerson, i started off in girls 2000 a few years ago, i am not going to tell you how many, because then you know my age. i am here to talk about the cut. last friday we received e-mail that we got like cut bad. and i am basically here to propose when i go out on maternity leave and come back, that all of this is situated and it's really hurtful because this is a program that i started out when i was a youth and to see that they may not

coke on the right. ♪ when it is gone ♪ when it is gone ♪ i won't miss cancer when it is gone ♪ >> andg from the video -- ♪ now it's gone ♪ now my cancer is fully gone >> oh, wow. that is so awesome. >> i'm so marvelled at the people who can do that. they don't make a mistake and all one shot. >> she did the video, because she wants to get on the ellen degeneres show, and she loves el lep and believe it or not, she has the help of none other than jeff gordon who saw the video and loved it. he said, you know, let me see if i can help. >> incredible and what an uplifting way to tell her story. >> jeff gordon is behind it, and we are behind it, and ellen degeneres is going to be behind it. >> good stuff. ♪ i'm cancer free >>> if i could see into the future, nicolas, i would predict that in about three seconds, you will be losing your mind laughing, because this is your kind of thing. watch this. this mud slide on the rifle river in sterling, michigan. he is on the way up and then slips because of unexpected how he came down, and you can see that he just boink bangs his face and jaw right

i have gone at 2:00 in the afternoon after i got off work and i'm still jammed up. >> instead of waiting three hours to get the tires changed, you can get it done rather quickly. >>> we are going to plan also for heat and humidity. today's highs if the mid 90s, we are going to be talking upper 90s, maybe triple-digits here by thursday, friday. the hottest week of the year easily. we have several opportunities before the week is out to set a new high for 2013. here's a look at your day planner on this monday morning. get ready for temperatures to be taken off today and for the week. by lunch time we are going to be up toward that 90-degree mark with temperatures in the mid 90s this afternoon. the 4:00 temperature 94. still 90 at 8:00. my wife is always asking me can i run in the afternoon? i'm like do it in the morning, the afternoon is going to be tough. otherwise the big story is going to be the warmth and mugginess, of the heat and humidity this afternoon. in fairfax county, 72, 70 for manassas and 73 if leesburg. outside with our michael and son camera, scaffolding on the washington m

i had gone through all the procedures. i spoke to everybody.nd for them to not believe a single word i was saying -- i'm lost. now, you know, my fate is almost in their hands. well, as he said, you know, talking about one of the highest shot callers around, that i put in the hole for a couple nights. not going to go over lightly. and i'm sure, you know, revenge somewhere down the road is going to have to be dealt with or met or something. you know, you hear stories of a guy getting out of the hole and stabbing somebody that was taking a shower. you know, you hear those stories. so, yeah, that scares me. >>> coming up -- >> i enjoy cooking. i love it. >> four-star dining, prison style. >> you get the soup packet out of this pea soup, put it over the fish, and then you put a scoop of this and a little bit of this on the fish. just eyeball that. it flavors up the fish real good. with thermacare heatwraps. the only wrap with patented heat cells that penetrate deep to relax, soothe, and unlock tight muscles. and now, introducing reusable thermacare

i said, all right, i had gone where through the dog walk where i normally walk my dog and walked backhrough to my street, the street that loops around. he said, we already have a police officer on the way so i said, okay. i told, they said, would you like a police officer to meet you? i said, yes. so i was walking back through to where my car was. he jumped out from the bushes. and he said -- and i got -- i don't have a problem. he says now you have a problem and he punched me in the nose, at that point i fell down. i tried to defend myself. he started to punch me in the face and i started screaming for help. i couldn't see. i couldn't breathe and he started taking me. >> are you still standing at this point? >> no, ma'am, i fell to the ground when he punched me the first time. i didn't see him getting ready to punch me. as soon as he punched me, i fell backwards and hit the grass. then he grabbed, he was wailing on my head and then i started yelling "help." when i started yelling for "help," he grabbed my head and started hitting my head into -- i tried to sit up and yes, ma'am for h

if i had gone down there, curtis, i was gonna tell the truth.i tell the truth... >> ella, zip it. zip it, babe. please. come on. just go with me. >> curtis, i'm not going nowhere with you. >> but you're just making it difficult. come on and go with me, and then you don't have to say nothing. just go. >> go where? >> this gonna be a long ride. >> curtis, why did you bring me down here? it's too early in the morning for all this foolishness. >> just hush. look. >> would you just--okay, turn the lights on. when did you do this? why didn't you tell me, curtis? >> [chuckles] i did it last night. i pulled a double shift, baby. get all my hours in. huh? you were right, ella, and i was wrong. and i was definitely wrong for asking you to lie. >> i appreciate this. >> and i appreciate you sticking to your guns. >> i'm proud of you, curtis. >> thank you, baby. >> i really am. and i want to give you something, baby. >> baby? in the help center? it's been a long time. can you help me with this? >> [laughs] >> what time they open officially? >> you are crazy.

so if i would have maybe gone at that point, i would have been able to come down on my own. since i hesitated, it was kind of like a slingshot. >> she lets go of the rope. she comes flying down and right at the bottom she fell off the board and she's skipping like a little rag doll. >> nicole takes a beating. >> when i got to the bottom of the wave, i fell. and i skipped like a little rock, like three times, on the face of the wave. and the whole time i'm like ah i'm fine. i'm just going to pop out the back. well, i didn't pop out the back. i went over the falls. and in the video, you can see my little head and arms sticking out. so i, you know, eat it really bad. i got pounded. >> garrett has only seconds to rescue her. >> and i come up and i pretty much don't know where i'm up. because i can't see the shore. i can't see the rocks. i don't see garrett anywhere. i don't see a ski, hear a ski, nothing. >> but he is forced to leave her to avoid getting pummelled by another wave himself. >> so i had to go back and circle around because you can't go in. if you don't go in at the

i haven't gone to confession in years. no, i haven't gone, but i'll go, i promise.l have to go. thanks a lot, father beck. when you look at these pictures of pope francis in brazil, what goes through your mind? >> i'm amazed at the transformation in that city. when you saw that stage last night which is now an alter and a church, what struck me is this is not a traditional gathering by any means. you know, we've been losing in brazil catholicism has, catholics to evangelicals and pentecostals in brazil. why we're losing them people say is because there's not enough life in the catholic liturgy and that celebration last night and the ones we'll continue to see certainly are incorporating all of that. it's a live liturgy. they want to present live church and the transformation, as far as i'm concerned, is remarkable. >> you mean the catholic church is now borrowing from evangelical christians and turning their gatherings into more positive, upbeat celebration? >> well, i think what we have to see is what's wrong with making the liturgy something exciting and something

>>"wow, i could've gone to vegas, but no i chose the campground only to be run out by the plague," buttedf i do see any dead animals around, i will definitely stay away from that area knowing that fleas may be looking for another host." the sites along the table mountain campgrounds northeast of la will be closed for at least seven days as officials find squirrel burrows and dust them to control fleas. the ohio man accused of kidnapping and imprisoning three young women for years in his cleveland home. accepted a plea deal. not face the death penalty. but will spend the rest of what his life in prison. he told a judge yesterday that he agreed with the deal - and understands that it means he will die in prison because of the long list of charges against him. prosecutors agreed to the deal because it means castro's three victims will not have to testify at a trial. here's part of what castro said in court, marking the first time the public has heard him speak. judge: finally sir, again, do you understand mr. castro, that upon entering this plea you will never be released prison? castro: i d

bob, you and i have gone back and forth. stevie wonder is he going to pull out of 23 states and boycott them? >> i don't know. he picked out florida. i will go back to what johnathon said. people who broke the windows were a small minority of the people protesting? >> it is a small mierpity, bob. bu by does it seem when they get up set they tock it out on a small business? we saw it with the nato protest and occupy movement. individual business owners get hurt by the business. >> it is criminals from the left. >>nd wayne, johnathon pois out the occupy movement and let's attack businesses and what is so evil about a business that employs a lot of people? >> eric this is all irrational. they are outraged. they can take it out on anything that is in their way. in the los angeles riot. they destroyed part of the businesses to support the community. they are not protesting and martin luther king. and gha ndi. it was always nonviolent. >> okay, we have spent how many minutes talking about something that says. >> remember the arizon

it hit me earlier at the hospital but i am still in denial she is gone. it is going do come when i am used to her talking my ear off and she is not going to be there anymore. >> all three kids would were in the home were hit by gunfire. she and her best friend, who is seven, and the friend's little brother who is four. their grandmother was also shot. they are all expected to be okay. 22-year-old was also home, the two kids who survived the attack are his niece and nephew. >> firecracker is what it sounded like or an explosion or bomb. they said it was shots. >> the killer rang the doorbell and his niece answered the door and he didn't get a look at the gunman and no idea why anyone who harm his family. >> i don't know who they were aiming for, probably aiming for someone else. it wasn't me or anyone. >> it happened in oakland's diamond district on wilson avenue around 11:15. police say they do not know the motive and they do not have a description of the shooter. the news was broken to the mother who is out of the town on vacation and the stepdaughter ask

and it will all be gone, including i hope the illegal stairway. we start from scratch with this building permit.

it where i have always gone to get food. i now live next door to them. it was a shame when it was closed. i now have to go a few blocks. i was thrilled when they opened up and thrilled that they served good food and great to meet my neighbors there. which is great when you don't have a dog. it was great to have a sandwich and a cup of coffee. i think they are a real asset. they improved my life. i think it a shame that they have been closed down in the . they have been an addition to my life and i believe they are an addition to the neighborhood and they offer a service that we want. >> my name is tina bernard. i have to agree with phyllis as well as with the points that were made here. when i moved to this neighborhood part of the reason is that i saw two businesses at the time not being in the neighborhood i didn't realize weren't thriving. i thought these could be places where i can gather with my neighbors. bacon is here and thriving and i can meet with my neighbors and i appreciate the service. >> any -- my name is robert dawson. i live in the house

. >> had i gone after rusty, as people wanted me to do, then the jury could be told by the prosecutorthe end she, in effect, by killing the kids she was getting back at rusty for the various things that he had done and would give her an at trr motive. >> the trial began in february 2002. both sides brought in preeminent psychiatrists to testify. dr. phillip snick led for the defense. his counterpart was dr. park dietz, renowned for testifying in the john hinckley case. dietz was also a consultant on the hit series "law and order." on several points the experts agreed. >> we both agreed she had a severe mental disease when she drowned her children. we both agreed she believed she was doing what was in the best interest of the children, and we both agreed she knew what she was doing was against the law. where we differed then was on whether in spite of knowing it was against the law she believed she was doing what was right for her children. >> the prosecution contended there was more method than madness. >> she said satan was telling her this, and if you are a religious person and sata

. >> had i gone after rusty, as people wanted me to do, then the jury could be told by the prosecutor in summation or at the end, she in effect by killing the kids, she was getting back at rusty for the various things that she had done and would give her an ulterior motive. >> the trial began in february 2002. both sides brought in pre-eminent psychiatrists to testify. dr. phillip rennick led for the defense. hi counter part was dr. park deets, renowned for testifying in the hinckley case and also a consultant on the hit series "law & order." on several points, the experts agreed. >> we both agreed she had a severe mental disease when she drowned her children. we both agreed she believed she was doing what was in the best interest of the children and we both agreed that she knew what she was doing against the law. where we disagreed, she believes doing what was right for her children. >> the prosecution contended there was more method than madness. >> she said satan was telling her this and if you're a religious person and satan is telling you to do something, you start out with the a

it was a friday night, and i had gone on a string of disasters states, this was in the 1980's. we hooked up, but said we didn't. it was 2:00am and i was getting home. i lived in venice, california. the rent was affordable. but this was to in the morning. the house had a wraparound porch. i was walking up to my house, and there was a shadowy figure on the porch. i did what any concert -- god- fearing a young woman did. i reached for my can of mace, and i was prepared. i looked at the chateau -- shadow, and i heard the voice and knew it was bobby. with all the sensitivity of a new social worker i said, what the -- are you doing here? he told a story that his foster uncle, worked at martin luther king hospital. he convinced his uncle to break into my personnel file. he got my personnel file and my address, there is no transportation in los angeles -- there is nothing. he took three buses and hitchhiked, making it to my old frame house in venice. i said, why are you here? he said i was in a car and we did drive by and i don't know what to do. you said you would always be there for m