istanbulfor a long period to find his writer 's voice.aris, following the footsteps of jean—paul sartre, going to hotels, reading his diaries. did you feel betrayed? know, and when you are a child you don't feel betrayed. and since my father was not a freudian father, a father that baudelaire would have hated opposing his son, he always said, i am your best friend and in fact, my freudian father, maybe my brother who taught me things he was stronger, my father a lwa ys me things he was stronger, my father always had fun with us and treated us as always had fun with us and treated us as if me and my brother were geniuses, never suppressed us. us as if me and my brother were geniuses, neversuppressed us. on the other hand, this other father was more attentive to the boy than my father. your book raises this fascinating question about the way in which individuals develop, the balance between being taught in being disciplined and finding your own path, you're an identity and individual personality. —— your own identity. you seem to suggest th