with me here in new york juan carlo rodriguez, president of the 75th precinct council, and tony herbertnd dr. jeff gardere, psychologist. thank you all for being here. let me begin with you, juan carlo. you were there, you know the family, you lived on the same block as them. tell me what it was like today. >> it was beautiful. it was beautiful to see that all the officers not only for the city of new york but from the whole country, was there to show support, not only to the wife and the kids but also to their fellow brothers in the city of new york which is the officers in the community, as well. >> there was this moment that stood out to a lot of us when the flag from his casket was handed to his wife and the two sons. what do you hope people will remember most about officer ramos? >> well as far as the community wise i can speak about as neighbors. >> yeah. >> you know he was a good father. he was a good husband. and he was always up and down the block with his kids. going either to the supermarket or to do the laundry. very quiet and humble man. >> and you said his father wasn't ar