and in this approximate silence we have felt that not regreting has spared us loneliness. called at the door. you did not tell me about these hours, how thick they were and wounded. i hear myself telling someone to punch me just to figure the order of my beliefs. someone else in my clothes who would view this and move on. explain again the conditions that will bring along the morning and what it is here that convenes the night. and then the last poem is called upon living. they shove your feet out of the smokestack kitchen. they narrow the big sea sba a line of your sweat and then they take away your last word and then they take away another. now you put the keys back in your pocket and now you push on the door until it is in flame, until it is in flame. next reader is jane herschfield. . >> one sand grain among the others in winter wind. i wake with my hand held over the place of grief in my body. depend on nothing, the voice advices, but even that is useless. my ears are useless, my familiar and intimate tongue, my protecting hand is useless that wants to hold the single

>>reporter: the industry however also propagates quack theories: like cigarettes eliminate loneliness and strengthen women's social equality. >>village mothers, however, know only too well about inequality. according to a university of california study, cigarettes account for over 11 percent of rural household expenditures. >>england: smoking in the poor actually displaces spending on education and medical care - and if people can be convinced to quit smoking, their lives will improve. >>reporter: like so many countries, china' policies are often shaped by a trade-off - where clout is determined by clearly visible economic weight. but over issues like counterfeiting and public health, the country appears in denial. behind the smokescreen there's a dire economic health warning. china loses two percent of its gdp to tobaccrelated illness - and premature deaths from smoking are expected to exceed two million by 2020. >>the drone of honeybees is one of the classic sounds of summer, but over recent years it has been asound we have been hearing less and less. across the world bee population

. >> the loneliness i think and the companionship.ving somebody there that, you know, to do things with. >> different deployment, different place, different country. >> this deployment was unlike any other. first sergeant hanson was part of an elite business development team whose goal was train afghan farmers to become self-sufficient. hanson says video of his mission throughout the year, his work with animals, the people. what we didn't see was the danger he was in daily. >> we had 21 separate engagements with the enemy besides trying to do what we needed to do. so mortared a lot, shot at a lot. days i was surrounded by children. i thought i was safe, doing good stuff, treating animals and somebody would start shooting at us. >> it was important for him to be here. he was part of the speciallized unit that left afghanistan in march after a leg injury. hanson came back unscathed but for nearly a year friends worried. >> this one is more emotional for he me just because he don't want him to leave again. >> as for what's next for first

greater freedom for bloggers their hands are not tied by editorial policy and they're often and loneliness and names being replaced with online leak names. governments around the world are trying to regulate the web it's actually terms of time with the public discontent and accusations of sounds issue newspapers and t.v. channels trying to catch up with the trend and have their own online versions and their own staff. couldn't to a recent survey by the pew research center in the last online news has already become more popular with americans then we didn't use the words. well you said that it isn't really destroying traditional journalism but is blogging and twittering and etc is it replacing is it an alternative to traditional journalism look i don't think it is an alternative the fact of the matter is there's an enormous amount of change which is going on in journalism in the media industry we've seen over the last five to ten years thousands and thousands of people have been thrown out of work every month the major metropolitan daily has closed in the united states over the last year or

says as a child she was haunted by loneliness. ler older sister was the one person she felt she could count on. >> she was a hard and strong- workion resilient individual. >> reporter: when t. was 13. >> she was murdered at the age of 22 and i would do anything to see her again. >> reporter: her grief, she says, scared away the family that was going to adopt her. her life already frayed gain to unravel. we went through so many hardships, abuse, sexually and physically and running away, awol and nobody able to keep tabs on you. >> i know the guy pointing a gun at my face and shot and i don't know how that bullet didn't hit me, but thank god it didn't. because i'm still living. >> reporter: elliot entered foster cares an infant and lived with one foster family through their childhood, but the lure of streets proved too much for him. then in 2008, a family friend was killed, and allen says he wasn't ballistic. allen says he doesn't remember much about the night that landed him in jail for a year, but he says his own actions caught up

feel like it will betray the relationship and those caregivers pay a price in their own health, lonelinessdepression and insomnia. >> to prevent breast cancer, eat five of nature's cancer fighters. a stanford researcher says soy, onions, broccoli, tomatoes and blueberries should be part of your diet. keep your weight down and you can lower the risk. >> "u.s.a. today" says saving money and lightening students backpacks using i-pads but the track record rather bumpy filled with students distracted with social net working sites and e-mail just a quick click away. we posted a link to the complete articles, abc7news.com. look under the must reads tab. >> a built-in sort of curve for that. you gotta wait for people to get used to things. 5:26 now. an east bay family prepares to lay a world war ii hero to rest decades after his death. the story is next. >> i'm terry mcsweeney live in oakland. one year ago today a six year sold boy disappeared from the rock ridge district. today an effort to revive interest in the story of hasanni campbell. the story coming up. >> the massive crackdown coming toda

. >> the loneliness and the companionship.ngs with. >> different employment. different place different country. >> this deployment was unlike any other. hanson was part of an elite agri business development team. his goal was to train afghan farmers to become self-proficient. hanson sent video of his mission throughout the year of his work with animals with the people. what we didn't see was the danger he was in daily. >> we had 21 separate engagements besides doing what we needed to do. got mortared a lot and shot a lot. there were days i was surrounded by children and i thought we were safe and treating animals and somebody would start shooting at us. >> it was important for sergeant bentley and hanson to be here. bentley left afghanistan in march after a leg injury. hanson came back unscathed but for nearly a year friends worried. >> this one is more emotional for me. i don't want him to leave again. >> as for what is next he will take a few weeks to transition out of military life and back to civilian life. he goes back to

is can help decrease loneliness, decrease feelings of being unloved.ally super important when you think about growing up. it gives a good protective factor for that. and also fears and self-consciousness. >> there's something specific about it being a sister, a female presence. why? >> just genderwise, girls tend to take that role. they tend to be a much more social, interactive kind of role in a different way than a brother would. so, it's really also sister to sister. that's important to think about, is sisters are learning from their older sisters or younger sisters, how to be caring, how to look out for, how to watch out for the emotional needs of one another. >> that innate nurturing that we talk about that women have. >> exactly. >> it can be tough, though. we're only two years apart, my sister and i, exactly, and it can be tough sometimes in terms of competition especially with you're that close in age. >> absolutely, there can be competition all the way. competition can can can also be healthy. it does teach you how to work through conflicts, h

you had to sit there in absolute boredom, loneliness, frustration, and fear. had to live one day at a time because you had no idea you wear -- no idea how long you're going to be there. afterwo years of solitary confinement, pacing back and forth in his cell, tom was finally moved to a larger holding cell with 45 other americans. among them was a man named john mccain. [applause] in circumstances that defied description, this band of brothers kept each other alive. one by one, they came home. he was released on march 14, 1973. you might think that a man who had suffered so much for his country would be bitter and broken by it. but his heart was only filled with love for america -- that special love of country that we call patriotism. [applause] tom wrote, "patriotism has become, for many, a corny thi ng. for me, it is more important now than at any time in my life. how wonderful to be an american -- to come home." please join me in honoring retired air force general, tom kirk. [applause] [applause] >> u.s.a.! u.s.a.! u.s.a.! u.s.a.! u.s.a.! [applause] >> my fe

. >> and you see like this ultimate kind of loneliness, two people, six inches away in completely differentamount of guilt and because it's not that she didn't care for him. >> but she didn't love him anymore. >> it wasn't what she felt her life was defined by and it should be. your marriage should be the cornerstone. it's your bedrock. it's that place where all great things grow from. so if it's not that, then that needs some examination. >> that's what it's been for you, hasn't it? >> yeah, absolutely and a lot of fun. >> roberts told me she was moved when she read "eat, pray, love" but she's also grateful that the author gave her the space to make the book her own. you know, i was speaking with elizabeth gilbert a couple of months ago and asked her what it was like to see julia roberts play you and she said it was very, very weird to have you photo-shopped into her life. but how much did you talk to her about it? >> well, i didn't really talk to her very much about it for a couple of, you know, dorky actory reasons. >> has she seen the movie? >> yes, she did see it. >> what did she tell

you had to sit there in absolute boredom, loneliness, frustration, and fear. had to live one day at a time because you had no idea you wear -- no idea how long you're going to be there. after two years of solitary confinement, pacing back and forth in his cell, tom was finally moved to a larger holding cell with 45 other americans. among them was a man named john mccain. [applause] in circumstances that defied description, this band of brothers kept each other alive. one by one, they came home. he was released on march 14, 1973. you might think that a man who had suffered so much for his country would be bitter and broken by it. but his heart was only filled with love for america -- that special love of country that we call patriotism. [applause] tom wrote, "patriotism has become, for many, a corny thi ng. for me, it is more important now than at any time in my life. how wonderful to be an american -- to come home." please join me in honoring retired air force general, tom kirk. [applause] [applause] >> u.s.a.! u.s.a.! u.s.a.! u.s.a.! u.s.a.! [applause] >> my

pursuing sanctions will become more difficult and lonelier. countries take this issue seriously. what does that mean? i will wrap up here sam. i think the q and a will be more interesting. i am only going to briefly discuss the options that do remain. i want to talk about the options i do not think our options. in negotiated solution is necessary. they are involved in every single option if you envision. at some point, it involves negotiation. or should not hold off as an option in itself. any relies solely on negotiations absent pressure or other approach. it will not work if you accept my arguments that the iranian regime is determined for the desire of a nuclear weapon. what are not options? it is a highly security guarantee. it had a century of bad experiences. i do not think it will trust one u.s. administration to get a security guarantee. nor would i like to see it as a good thing. it is not something that a confident country does. at the same time, i think we would be quite low to trust it about a nuclear program. what about a grand bargain? to me, a grand bargain would t

you had to just sit there in absolute boredom, loneliness, frustration, and fear.to live one day at a time because you had no idea how long you were going to be there. after two years of solitary confinement, pacing back and forth in his cell, 3 and that steps across, three half steps and deep, thomas finally move to a larger holding cell with 45 other americans. among these prisoners was a man .amed john mccain purifie [applause] in circumstances that defied description, this band of brothers kept themselves alive and one by one, they came home. tom was released on march 14, 1973. you might think that a man who led suffered so much for his country would be bitter and broken by it, but tom was only filled with love, love for a country -- with a special love that we call patriotism. [applause] tom road, "patriotism has become, for many, a corny thing. before me, it is more important now than any other time in my life. how lovely it is to be an american coming home." france, please join me in honoring colonel tom kirk. [cheers and applause] [cheers] [chanting "usa!"]

kindergarten they're lonelier, says the kindergarten teachers because they need the social skills.n the household. >> they do because of your undivided and wonderful attention. of course you love them to death. >> all the toys. >> watch out for the christmas tree. you just want to be aware of that. you don't want the spoiled kid and if you're not careful that could be a problem. >> part of having all the toys is not having to fight for the toys. >> exactly. >> you say help provide social skill opportunities. i guess you mean conflict resolution, things that you learn by dealing with the brother or sister. >> that doesn't mean the child is going to miss. you need to provide those play dates or a friend who is a little argumentative and teach the child how to solve a problem so he can stand up on his own. >> interesting. we have some celebrities, well-known people who have done well in life. >> oh, golly from john lennon to robert deniro to chelsea clinton. it isn't the size of the family. it's the interaction of the members inside and only seems to be the growing trend. i think so.