hello this is a podcast of the psyche, where i am a journalist, natalya loseva and clinical psychologistndidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors are trying to decompose the most difficult solitaire situations in life situations, our current situation is unusual in that the request came from the spouse alexander hello. hello, you have arrived. hello yes with your family your wife's problem. anna is afraid of all modes of transport, she is afraid of speed, and as i understand it, anh, it has already begun to cause great discomfort, great inconvenience, for your life, for your life there, travel differences. tell me, please, natalya mikhail please help. in fact, she is afraid of speed, it comes to hysterics, it comes to tears, the speed, which is 120 km / h 150, she is even sometimes afraid of the sound of the engine of the car , the sound of the current does not start to go yet, it starts to increase there, and he is already starting to get hysterical, since the steering wheel not enough, but sometimes there touches. and what does it look like? ah, that's it, fear, scientists ' hear

my name is natalya loseva, a journalist, my co-host is a clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors, and today we are sorting out the survey. i can't make friends. listen, well, didn't you have such a situation that you grew up changed? your life has changed priorities and someone you are not something that has ceased to be interesting. well, somehow you drifted away was, of course, what should he say? well, we just either stopped talking. i have always had a very simple large circle of people, i am a social person. i i like to have a hmm to have a lot. yes indeed friends of the company. i don't know, that is important to me , important to me there, well, that is, you communicate. i love it is important for me to communicate, and i suffer if i lose part of communication, these are different things, this is not one. and the same people are also not especially i do not know how to lose them are different things. learn to lose the skill of losing the buzz. they just want to get lost. i’m saying that they have every right to do this, they are absolutely not at all

psychic, my name is natalya loseva, my co-host is phd in psychology , clinical psychologist mikhail khorswho doesn't know how to be friends karina a here is the person with whom you are friends, he must be some kind of well , i don’t know how to correspond to you, there is no external provision, that is , here you don’t have any social barriers, some kind of social selection. no, michael has a question for you. for me , after all, the concept of friendship. it still has some kind of such. well, not quite, let's say material and rational let's say. uh, shade and explanation, because it really happens. here, like. here are different people, this is a nice interesting person - this is a nice interesting one, but with this i want to here to share communicate be silent together in a cafe go to the cinema go uh, share something like that, well, sad or joyful, but not with this. what it is? what makes people friends? that's at some level that is rationally difficult to explain. well, if we remove, on the one hand, mysticism, and on the other hand, something like that is simply not quite material

my name is natalya loseva, a journalist, my co-host is a clinical psychologist, and i am a psychologistme to us with such a question, friends stopped being friends with me. everything is not, than you dispersed them not all, but the best friends are the best, even here, probably, three people. i can er, immediately yes it appears to my head, which just surprised me. maybe i surprised them so far the question remains open, because i am a fairly communicative person. i think i like talking about problems. i think i'm talking about problems. i write, i call and often for me friendship. it's a little love. here you have three friends. i had a lot of girlfriends, for example, even here are four. uh, my birthday was there 3 years ago. these are four people. i open. now these four people are not around at all. and with me, for example, i’m there. congratulations there on the birth of children on the wedding, and with some events, someone is on it, that is, you don’t quarreled. they just dissolve into the horizon, gone into tone, right? or, for example, here is the closest friend, with whom i a

mind where i am journalist natalya loseva and mikhail khors are looking for ways out of the most difficultcame from a husband who says that his wife is afraid of public transport. and the formula works. don't be afraid with you. here it works or not. we see that it does not seem to work. yes, the first flight, when we flew together on an airplane. she grabbed me, right there tightly clamped her hand very tightly , right there, i never felt such hugs there. you see, everything is profit and then it seems like how we went through it there, yes, let's say there is that you hold her hand, everything is there okay about that case in the airplane that he told. there, in the first situation, about braking. she, with the role of that, she calmed herself in a different way, as she said, like that everything was normal there, she was more worried, and after the second there, the third visit, he had this flash. well, apparently a resource. there is a backlog for working with this another issue, it is important not to demand from yourself that it should go like this once and for all. that's it, if you

thank you hello this is a podcast of the psyche, where i am a journalist natalya loseva and a clinicalandidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors, are trying to decompose the most complex solitaire life situations, our current situation is unusual in that the launch came from the spouse alexander hello. hello, you have arrived. hello, yes with your family problem your wife. anna is afraid of all modes of transport, she is afraid of speed, and as i understand it, anh, it has already begun to cause great discomfort, great inconvenience, for your life, for your life there, travel entertainment. tell me, please, natalya mikhailov please help, really. she is afraid of speed comes to tantrums comes to tears 120 km / h. she is even sometimes afraid of the sound of the engine of the car , the sound does not yet start to go, it just starts to increase there, and he is already starting to get hysterical. the steering wheel is missing, but sometimes it touches it. and how it looks, and all the fear, leaked heartbeat, tears, panic, hands are shaking and it’s impossible to cope with it, it’s n