writer lisa belkin also a princeton alum and mom who attended the same conference says patton is sending the wrong message. >> there's elitism oozing out of every pore of this letter. this isn't an odds game, this isn't a quest, this is something that should happen as part of a fulfilled, dynamic, interesting life. >> reporter: despite the firestorm of criticism, patton stands by her words. >> look, it is advice. take it or leave it. >> reporter: and says she is hoping to keep the conversation going. michelle franzen, nbc news, new york. >>> up next on this easter, we're going to go to a place where faith in god is alive and well and growing. >>> finally on this easter sunday, while the roman catholic church struggles in some parts of the world, including here in the united states, the church in africa is being embraced like never before. nbc's stephanie gosk recently traveled to ghana where the church plays an increasingly central role in people's lives. >> reporter: far from the fresco chapels and guilded altars of rome, one of the few places in world where the catholic church is growi

susan patton, the letter of the open letter to the school's newspaper, was one of the first women tote from the school. >> it wutz just as just end ten suggest to the young women, keep an open mind. look around you. these are the best, best guys. >> reporter: as patton puts it, ultimately, it will frustrate you to be with a man who just isn't as smart as you. princeton women told us she has a point, but they're not choosing husbands yet. >> i don't think her entire point is con pleatly wrong. girls want to date girls that are as smart as them. but we are all way to young to be getting married now. >> reporter: the letter is stirring up intense debate online and on the street. one woman writing to us, saying, i'm a 41-year-old single woman and i would advise any freshman in college the same. but althounother writes, findin husband is not the point of going to college. as for the moms we spoke with? >> it does hark back to an earlier time, when women were expected to be going to college to get their mrs degrees. >> i would have said the same thing. in fact, i did say the same thing. of

but, susan patton is glad this has sparked a conversation. >> so the real piece of advice i wanted to share with the wonderful young women on the campus of my beloved alma mater, princeton university, and even smaller than that it was intended only for those women who are thinking that they do want to have children, who want a traditional marriage. so it was intended for a very, very small audience. and the fact that it went so viral so quickly makes me think, you know, this a conversation that needed to take place. and i'm so glad that women are now thinking about this, talking with each other, talking with their families. i think that's the important thing. >> patton wants young women to focus on more than just a career path. >> the politically popular position to take is career, career, career have it all, lean in, all of that is great. i'm just saying don't do that to the exclusion of at least an equal investment in the idenfication of a life parner with whom to build a family and raise children if that's what you want. and, again, i understand not all women want to be married, no

patton wasn't telling women to put marriage ahead of their careers but just the opposite.e as smart as they are so their careers and personal lives can blossom. who a woman marries if she decides to is one of the most important decisions she can make. trust me, it's something that successful women like hillary clinton, sheryl sandberg, and eventually even gloria stinham took very, very seriously. the idea of marrying well or marrying up isn't a conversation for polite liberated circles. a woman's right not to marry, or if she must, to marry another woman, that's another sorry. these pursuits are praised and celebrated as righteous revolts against paternalism, parochialism, and conservatism. a woman's right to choose, her right not to start a family before she actually wants the responsibility that comes with sexu

in a letter to the daily princetonnian, princeton alum susan patton says yes and advises the young womento find a husband on campus as soon as possible. you might imagine, that friendly little piece of advice launched a new international firestorm of feminist protests, debates about career versus family. let's bring in our guests. matt swift i feel sorry for. by the way. this woman susan patton is one of the pioneer women at princeton, one of the first to graduate the university, taking a lot of heat for this. is it deserved? >> no. i don't think it is. i would side with the young woman who wrote a "wall street journal" opinion piece today saying it is a reasonable piece of advice and one her own mother imparted. my mother had advice too. i believe she said to not forget about dating the geeks in high school because they would make a lot of money later. we don't necessarily take all these things a hundred percent seriously but it is just family lore. on a serious note it is good to be discussing things like marriage and family planning. this is one of sheryl sandberg's issues she tried t

of all the opinions and comments, patton oswalds pressed what maybe the most poignant reflection. facebook post he wrote of the tragedies simplifys the worst of hue mapty, it's easy to lose track of the bigger picture. the majority stands against darkness, we wouldn't be he if hue mapty weren't ip herptly evil. >>> we begin with the forecast, as you head out the door. heading out the doors no type of rain, i suggest you take it with you. we have the chance for showers in the forecast. now, all is dry, all is well. in terms of temperatures this morning, we are above average, 52 owings mills. easton 50. 54 frederick. 43 for the low temperatures. winds in the east, southeast, as we go throughout the day. they will pick up, at 5- 15 miles an hour. you can plan like this by 8:00, the clouds will start to break up a little bit, few peeks of sunshine in to the afternoon. the high temperature coming in 72 degrees. now a check of the time saver traffic with loren cook. >>> we have trouble on 895, a crash along the southbound lanes, at child street. problems will persist up in rosedale, ano

donna, you know what is your interpretation of what susan patton is saying?ll, i think her advice is a little old school. i know it is narrowly tailored to those who are primarily at princeton, maybe other ivy league schools. i teach at georgetown, been there for over a decade. i would never tell my young female students that they better hurry up and find a husband and have babies and get their tickets in so they can go out and be whatever. i think this is an opportunity for women when they're in college to explore the possibilities of who they are, what they want to do with their lives and pursue their dreams. i bet if that comes with finding a partner, fine. i also believe that this whole notion of our biological clock somehow running out before we turn 35, you know, it is not the age of the woman's age, it is the age of the eggs. we have over a million when we're born. and often women are able, capable of having children at a much later time in life. i'm no doctor. fredricka, you just had -- >> guilty. >> guilty. but -- >> is this -- this is kind of the an

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. >> final day of the draft for the niners, picked up quinton patton, quinton dial, and nick mood use, the raiders took quarterback tyler wilson out of arkansas, took tight ends. central flafs -- and just selected missouri western defensive end david bass in the seventh. more from the as and the draft at 6:00. >> ama: in a half hour at 6:00, grass fire in san jose. tonight what firefighters say caused the blaze. >> a piece of hollywood history returned nearly 20 years after its wag stolen. >>> an international beard competition was held today in germany. in the competition was especially hairy with 100 men, and you can get in on this growing trend. the san jose sharks are holding a beard-a-thon during the playoffs. >> tonight on "world news" from washington breaking news in the case of the boston bombers tonight. russian authorities reaching out to the u.s. telling investigators here they recorded phone conversation between one of the suspects and miss mother, conversations that said up red flags. >>> under arrest, the fbi zeros in op the man they say was behind the twisted plot of ri

should be ready for training camp, also picked up quinton patton, quinton dial. and b.j. from south florida. and the raiders took quarterback tyler wilson. took tight end costa and michael riviera, and stacy mcgee, and just selected missouri western defensive end, david bass in the feign. third round of the zurich classic. missing his front foot. 2009 u.s. open champ lucas glover is the leader. 14-under, up by two strokes going into sunday's final round. >> this abc7 sports report brought to you by orchard supply hardware. >> ama: a big weekend for astronomy buffs. the unusual site >> ama: join me at 9:00 on cable 13. we'll take you which bay area rock music venue was named the second best in the nation. then at 11:00, growing concern about crime in san francisco's castro neighborhood. the bit of the past that is coming back to life to help. at 9:00 and 11:00 on abc7 news. >> a big treat for star gazers. saturn will be clearly visible in the night sky. you can see the planet there in the center of the screen. saturn reaches opposition with the sun and will be visible all

in a letter to the princeton student newspaper, patton who has two sons both of whom went to princetonnever had to "find a husband on campus before you graduate. smart women can't, shouldn't marry men who aren't at least their intellectual equal. there's a very limited population of men who are as smart or smarter than we are and i say again, you will never, again be surrounded by this concentration of men who are worthy of you." are these really words of wisdom? out front, the woman who worote the article. all right, susan, you stepped in it. let me start. >> i did. >> let me start with you. all right, you've been called an anti-feminist and embarrassment, excruciating, regressive, but you instant by what you said? >> i totally stand by what i said. i don't think anything about this is anti-feminist. it's not retro gresive. it's not even radical. women if in addition your career you want to be married and have children, you should think earlier about it than you might be planning to. >> in addition your career and understand that, but there is another way of looking at this. let's loo

should be ready for training camp, also picked up quinton patton, quinton dial. and b.j.aniels from south florida. and the raiders took quarterback tyler w tight end costa and micl riviera, and stacy mcgee, and just selected missouri western defensive end, david bass in the feign. third round of the zurich classic. missing front foot. 2009 u.s. open champ lucas glover is the leader. 14-under, up by two strokes going into sunday's final round. >> this abc7 sports report brought to you by orchard supply hardware. >> ama: a big weekend f astronomy buffs. the unusual site >> ama: join me at 9:00 on cable 13. we'll take you which bay area rock music venue was named the second best in the nation. then at 11:00, growing concern about crime in san francisco's castro neighborhood. the bit of the past that is coming back to life to help. at 9:00 and 11:00 on abc7 news. >> a big treat for star gazers. saturn will be clearly visible u can see the planet there in the center of the screen. saturn reaches opposition with the sun and will be visible all night long. also at its closest po

wide receiver quentin patton and nick moody and quarterback from south florida, raiders on the final day took tyler wilson out of arkansas. running back and defensive tackle out of oklahoma. in the seventh, missouri end david bass. a dream come froo true but now they have to make the team. [ male announcer ] fact: the 100% electric nissan leaf... is more fun than ever. sees better than ever. ♪ charges faster. and will charge. cool. and heat. from your phone. fact: leaf never needs gas. ever. good for the world. built in america. now, leaf's an easier choice than ever. ♪ shop at choosenissan.com. ♪ >> ama: coming up at 11:00, growing concern about crime in san francisco's castro neighborhood. tonight how the community is bringing back the past to help fight crime. and does your smart phone putting you at risk. that is tonight at 11:00. >> the white house correspondents dinner was tonight a chance to let loose in washington. here is taste of president's best moments. >> he after all this time i still make rookie mistakes, i'm not out in california having a fund-raiser, i mentioned that

better because jason bateman and paula patton is here to tell us about "disconnect."ave installed a trojan virus on to your system. now, once he does this, he can do anything he wants with your computer. you log on, you punch in your passwords. it comes up on his screen. everything you do, he can see. he can turn on your camera. he can watch you. >> so happy to have them here. jason and paula, two of the stars of the film and there are so many different story lines. you guys actually don't intersect and i don't want to give too much away. this feels like a thriller. i want to start with you, paula. your character is going through a lot and the victim of identity theft. >> yes. >> what drew you to this. >> it was the script. a script i could not put down because it is a thriller and as you watch the movie, you do not foe what's going to happen. >> no. >> and there's a surprise at every turn. that's what the first thing, you always want to be in a good film and like the challenge of playing cindy. like nobody i played before. she's grieving, in love with her husband but

being able to reject patton's as trivial in nature. to make small changes in molecules and try to get them patented. >> organizations say they need to keep working with big pharmaceuticals to provide drugs for the world's poor, so this does not distract from the important issue they are all concerned about, saving lives. the generic is going to increase production. with the existing drugs. therefore, more medicines are coming out. >> large, western pharmaceutical companies will have to look at how they are doing business in india. came to aoman, it late. there is hope that others will continue and that the verdict in new delhi will give hope to millions. aljazeera, new delhi. >> the u.s. pharmaceutical industry blasted the indian supreme court. a report from washington, d.c. the world news lostof artists -- novartis its case, seen as a victory for the poor, who can afford other generic drugs, here in the united states, there is another view. the u.s. has always been seen as a pro patent society, and the companies trading with the unite

wide reciever quinton patton. running back marcus lattimore. defensive end quinton dial.inebacker nick moody. quarterback b.j. daniels. offensive tackle carter bykowski. and cornerback marcus cooper. the raiders also added seven new players to their roster. quarterback tyler wilson. tight end nick kasa. running back latavius murray. tight end mychal rivera. defensive tackle stacy mcgee. wide reciever brice butler. and defensive end david bass. the sharks drop the final game of the season before heading into the playoffs. justin williams of the l.a. kings scored what proved to be the winning goal in the third period as the kings went on to beat the sharks three-to-two. the sharks will begin their ninth straight playoff appearance in vancouver against the third-seeded canucks. tickets for when they come back to san jose start at 71 dollars. and remember you can watch the weather forecast whenever it is convenient for you on our 24/7 bay area news channel. you can also get headlines and live traffic. it's on comcast 193. look at 'em. living on cloud nine with that u-verse wi

firefighters in particular, and so we have some members of that team talking about that here, sharl patton is back there, give a wave, and did rachel step out already? and rachel thought she was going to give a wave but she had to step out to go to another meeting, from the breast cancer fund, we have my two science leaders, [inaudible] and janet gray, so science questions galor, they can handle them all, policy questions, we'll have to deflect some of those to nancy for another time, so what i'm going to present today is what we call our healthy home and healthy world tours, i'll talk a little bit about who the breast cancer fund is and then we're going to walk through kind of the rooms in your home talking about tips for avoiding exposures that are linked to breast cancer and i will talk a little bit about the different chemicals, where they're found, things you can do to avoid them and also some policies, and then we'll kind of go beyond the home to talk about the kinds of exposures that might be not within our control in the house but elsewhere. and it looks like i have videos so that

it was a little -- susan patton is her name.eel too much emphasis has been -- the odds will never be as good again. that's a little 1952. >> really marry somebody you met in college? >> you change so much from the time you're in your 20s. >> stephanie: i was dating a usc football player. trust me. >> i would not want to be friends with the person i was in college. >> stephanie: the unformed glob of proto plasm. >> the larger theme they're addressing here which is interesting is a lot of times we -- look, i am a career person through and through. i always thought of my career first. it was always a top priority. some of the men would tell you that as well that i've dated. that's probably why i'm still single. but i do think looking back now that i was hesitant to prioritize relationships for the exact reason that i was so intent on being self-sufficient. i was so intent on making sure my career was a priority and that i could provide for myself no matter what. i think that these women are now saying it's not sun a bad thing to --

wide reciever quinton patton. running back marcus lattimore. defensive end quinton dial. outside linebacker nick moody. quarterback b.j. daniels. offensive tackle carter bykowski. and cornerback marcus cooper the raiders also added seven new players to their roster. quarterback tyler wilson. tight end nick kasa. running back latavius murray. tight end mychal rivera. defensive tackle stacy mcgee. wide reciever brice butler. and defensive end david bass. >> clips and clamor for the obama dinner. he has new plans! >> i understand the second term you need new energy. try new things and my team and i wanted to borrow one of michele's track tricks.... [laughter] i thought this looked pretty good. that looked pretty good. >> it looked like a great time. >> and i we have this basketball game in oakland and people are going to be tilted it all day. >> yes. >> is a playoff. how about the afternoon? >> it is going to be beautiful. it will be nice with temperatures in the '70s and oakland nearly 80 degrees. nine these inland. the warm weather will be here tuesday. >> maybe i will see

patton would not have survived a peer review, i'm sure.wer who had problems with a -- you know, he slept with his driver kay somersby, in today's standards, the generals were brilliant and absolutely able to do the best jobs in the country would not have survived. the idea they were going to peer review and thought if i like you, you must be good, is totally insane. we've got to get back and focus on measures of effectiveness not measures of performance. right now we perform to a standard, that may or may not achieve the requirements we need to win, but we've got step away from the whole idea we can somehow bring a negotiated process, a democracy to the military to think somehow it would be more effective and it simply won't. >> megyn: a lot of people love oprah winfrey. do we want general winfrey running the next war? there's a question about whether this is going to wind up with the most effective leader. tell what you the new york times has an interesting article quoting a professor at university of north carolina, chapel hill and speci

and patton oswald road when you spot violence or bigotry or intolerance or fear or garden-variety miss on any hatred or ignorance just look it in the eye and think the good outnumber you. the other message going viral reads, darkness cannot drive out darkness. only light can do that. new york loves boston. not only that, but tonight the new york yankees will be playing the traditional red sox song just this afternoon the yankees posted this photo on their twitter feed. there you see united we stand. i think it's safe to say any goal of dividing us has failed, and it's failed miserably. someone is always in our war room. check us out at current.com current.com/"the war room." thanks for joining us here in "the war room." "the young turks" is next with cenk uygur. going to do the young turks. i think the number one thing that viewers like about the young turks is that we're honest. they know that i'm not bs'ing them with some hidden agenda, actually supporting one party or the other. when the democrats are wrong, they know that i'm going to be the first one to call them out. they can que

let's add spencer patton from steel vine invests into this conversation. spencer, how do you feel about the stock after the numbers? >> i've been pleased with the reaction in apple. i think the sentiment has finally switched all the way to be as negative as possible. everybody is down on apple as much as you really can be considering about a third of the company's market capitalization is in cash. this is a good time in my opinion to look at apple shares. i think you have more upside here to come because apple has a lot of catching up to do. it is still down 25% or so this year whe the broader stock markets are up 10%. melissa: are you still feeling that way when you look at price in after-hours? it is next to you on the screen and it has jumped 20 bucks. >> yeah. melissa: you think people who didn't buy before this earnings call lost out or would you get in when the marketpens tomorrow? >> i don't think it is too late. sometimes you get a big pop you have a little bit where the stock comes back in some but you look how far it has fallen. just the price wh

with me spencer patton, chief investment officer at steel vine investments. we also have david barrett, founder and ceo of expensivefy a report company that uses bitcoins to reimburse their clients. interesting. david, let me start with you. have you been following this today? bitcoin has gone bit bananas? >> certainly i think today is the big day for bitcoins certainly. i guess i think there is a lot of overreaction for the market correction here. it is less about people saying about it coin being hacked but that is certainly not true. what happened, much more like the facebook ipo we're basically nasdaq slows down, affected price of currencies. facebook is fine. facebook is unaffected. same way bitcoin is fine. the company that hosts it out of japan has been taken over by a silicon valley startup. i think we're in very early days of a exciting new market. i think there are still twists and turns to be had. i think as the market stabilizes things will get better. melissa: spencer, twist and turns to be had. i'm ready to vomit what happened today. it has been

bill patton, tim lopez, and ernesto -- >> ernesto. agero. >> nice to see you all again.- >> a year ago. >> why did it take a year to bring the show to fruition? >> we wanted to contemporize and modernize the dating show and make it more authentic. first things first, women have to know who the guys are. that's why we wanted to introduce them on the "today" show and say these are our guys, these guys are ready for love. then we started the process of finding the women -- the matchmakers and the women. >> sometimes love takes time. >> sometimes love takes time. >> it probably doesn't happen during an episode. >> or many episodes. >> i do think what's interesting about the show is these guys all want to get married, is that right? >> well, no, happily ever after. which is -- it could mean a lot of things. it could mean engagement, marriage. >> one of you does. which is the one that wants to be married? >> i would love to be married. >> a happy marriage, not actually just married. >> yeah. >> so there's a lot of fun parts about the show that make it different from all the ot

in fact, chris patton, an executive jpmorgan, recently explained how valuable it is. >> how significantart of the bottom line comes from your program? >> i mean, this business is a very important business to jpmorgan. it's an important business in terms of its size and scale. we are the largest processor of food stamps in the country, so we've seen huge increase in volume over the past year or two. >> since 2008, federal government spending on food stamps has doubled. as food stamp rolls expand, so do corporate profits. you might be surprised to learn that a large investment bank like jpmorgan is not only lobbying institutions like the senate banking committee, but also the house and senate agriculture committees as well. why would an investment bank like jpmorgan do that? because those are the institutions that have oversite of the food stamp program. over the course of the years, with that lobbying, jpmorgan has loosened eligibility requirements and expanded opportunities for people to become involved in the food stamp program. that may be why even as the unemployment rate drops, the

susan patton has two sons.ne went to princeton and graduated and one is currently a student there. i have two sons. a 10-year-old and 8-year-old. if my wife kisses them good-bye in front of their friends, they're totally embarrassed. so i can only imagine. my mom had to send a letter to the school to get me a date or get me married before i get out of school, to me, this whole thing is just bizarre. >> i find this fascinating. i have never seen an argument, the two sides of the feminist argument where women are so intolerant of the other view of the other side. >> not demonstrated by us. >> we have different views but we're able to have a civil conversation about it. >> all right. >>> next up, we also have, you know, a bit of contention between rihanna and chris brown. let's hear what he had to say. >> you understand that if you behave badly again, you're going to damage not only your relationship, but her relationship -- her reputation, as well. >> absolutely, so that's why i'm moving forward. positive. >> peo

stuart: that was susan patton.band. >> she speaks from the perspective of being a mother. stuart: she is not putting you down. >> she said women have a shelflife. i do not believe that.

they took wide receiver quinton patton from louisiana tech.utherly running back marcus lattimore, although it could be a while before lattimore actually contributes on the field. he tore three of the four major ligaments in his right knee in october against tennessee. the quarterback position has been a fluid one for the raiders in recent history. they addressed that position with their fourth round pick yesterday, taking tyler wilson of arkansas. wilson was a two year starter for the razorbacks, throwing for 21 touchdown passes last year and 24 in his junior season. >>> and here are some of the college players from the bay area drafted yesterday. cal offensive lineman brian swenke headed to tennessee. two from stanford, including stephane tailer who is now an arizona cardinal. he'll face the niners twice a year. cal defensive back steve williams to san diego. he'll face the raiders twice a year. houston got san jose state offensive tackle dave quizenbury, and mark anthony to the ravens. >>> it's 9:26, and president obama laps up controversy a

just thinking about the nature of war for a second, it was patton who suggested that consider how every other human endeavor shrinks to insignificance before it. and, god, how i love it, was the finishing line. it would be dishonest of any person who had been in combat not to, not to at least own up a little bit that the thrill of combat and the gore of combat somehow intermix in an unlikely stew that has both a repellant factor to it and an attractive factor to it. but as i mention in the book, once you've been there, you really never leave it. a lifelong thing. and so i'll be coming back to that theme. but to finish up just a general characterization on warfare itself, mr. john keegan died recently. probably the military historian of the last 75 years who has been the most effective, the most insightful british sand hearst fellow. keegan was quick to suggest anyone who has had to have their hair specially done for the evening and stands up on the stage and purports to talk about such things probably falls into the category of being a bull frog. so i'm going to try to avoid being a bul

cnn senior correspond respondent nick patton walsh joins us. you spoke to their mother. but nic robertson, let's start with the news conference. what did they say? >> jake, it was about a 45-minute press conference. a lot of journalists, questions being fired in english and russian from all sides, a jumble of economi of questions. at times they seem confused. at times emotional, at times direct and strident in what they were saying. tamerlan's mother in particular, saying they wouldn't be allowed to see dzhokhar in the hospital in the united states. getting very emotional about that at a point. saying she was speaking to dzhokhar's lawyers and saying right now, he is being fed only by a feeding tube. can't take solid food and she also said and this is contrary to what we understand. she said so far he hasn't had any official questioning. but the emotion, her emotion, coming out, saying she might denounce her u.s. or renounce her u.s. citizenship. this seems to be a parent here, who is caught in confusion, they don't really understand what's happening or the set of denial

susan patton. writes an editorial in the princeton newspaper. >> get the mrs. degree. >> i thought it was a modest proposal. i guess it's not. it seems a bit retrograde at best. >> the son at princeton, he's not happy about it. >> he's got to be dying and agonizing. >> having your mother say, find a husband before you graduate. >> she just fies it saying it is feminist to do this. you're make the choice. >> in a world where we're debating gay marriage, leaning in, this is an interesting contribution to the debate. a lot going on about women and men and relationships. >> thank you, larry. >>> also in the "heat index." country singer kellie pickler and derek hough. they're firing up the dance floor. we decided to spend time with help. rachel smith, host of "on the red carpet" spent time with them before tonight. take a look. ♪ dancing to the moonlight >> reporter: this blew away the first dance of the season. and last week, their jazz routine blew everyone's sox off. it wasn't sox that concerned kellie. >> i was more concerned about wardrobe malfu

the vast majority of people will listen to april, may, june and complete the patton and say july becauseproblem. they will not pay attention to the entn which is, mary's mother has four daughters, april, may, june, and mary obviously. so you are way too smart. >>gregg: just lucky. >> in speech writing they tell you the way the brain thinks look at numbers like that and they tell you to write your speech like that, as well. >> the brain is looking for pat weres and wants to complete the pattern. we learned you -- we all experience 3-d reality but we take in low resolution to the images through our eyes and our brain takes the information and renders a 3-d world and our brain is guessing and filling in the blanks. >>heather: tomorrow night the episode is about fear. why do we want to be afraid? >> fear is regulated by the area of brain that directs the emotions. we have an overactive area that has served us well 100,000 years ago in africa where we had they have our alarm on. it sets us up for fight or flight. do we stay and fight? or do we runaway? that was biologically an advantage. toda

the comedian and late tv icon patton oswalt on twitter, advice from mr.things are in the news. "look for the helpers. you will always find people who are helping." indeed, you will. on facebook oswalt posted a moving essay, including with this line, "when you spot violence or bigotry or intolerance or fear or just garden variety misogyny, hatred or ignorance, just look it in the eye and think -- just look it in the eye and think, the good outnumber you, and we always will." excellent advice. >>> and finally, relief for the bombing victims. wide receiver danny amendola, who just joined the new england patriots announced he will donate money to a boston marathon relief fund for every pass thrown his way next season and he pledged a $100 donation for catches and get this, $200 donation for anything dropped so fans can root for either outcome and, of course, eyes will be on amendola and tom brady next season for a whole new reason. that's a way to -- >> that is terrific. >> exactly. so everyone weighing in and just thinking of boston. >> absolutely. i love th

here is what nobody is telling you, find a husband on campus before you graduate and woe to susan pattonlt a backlash from that. susan, thank you for being here. >> thank you for having me. >> megyn: first, let me ask you why you wrote this. >> i think the information directed to young women today is about their career development, their professional advancement. nobody is talking with them about the other part of work-life balance. nobody is talking about the importance of thinking about family and for those who want the traditional marriage and children, they've got to start thinking about it, sooner rather than later. >> now, here is some of the blowback that you've received. one of the example from maureen o'connor, saying that this is an excruciatingly retro understanding of relationships. your conclusion that a successful heterosexual relationship requires a man to be smarter than a woman and posits that women are smart and best place they're likely to go do that is while it's at princeton. >> i don't think anything about it is retro or anti-feminist, women want to be married and w

patton is absolutely right we're focused on half of what our lives are like, when you're mapping it outdesire and to map out a life that allows them to have that equally with this other thing. >> that's exactly right. >> it's certainly my larger message. >> alisyn: suzanne and susan patton, a great topic and i wish we could talk about it the next hour and a half. and i'll invite our viewers to send in their comments and we'll continue the conversation hopefully in the after the show show. thank you, ladies for being here to talk about it. >> thank you. >> thanks for having me. >> alisyn: on the run down, how the controversial it u.s. drone project got started nearly ten years. and a decision to catch a home run ball while holding his toddler. we're talking to him live about that big catch coming up. ♪ ♪ using supercomputing and mobile technology over our secure network, verizon innovators are building a world of medical treatment data in the cloud. so doctors can make a more informed diagnosis from anywhere, in seconds rather than months. because the world's biggest challenges deserve e

. >>> comedian patton oswalt his facebook message to the culprits that the good outnumber you and weviral, a picture and a quote of former children's tv host mr. rogers with his reminder that when you see scary things in the news, look for the helpers. you will always find people who are helping. and bostonians also were opening their hearts and homes to anyone stranded by the tragedy. google has created two online documents where people can reach out if they need a place to stay or have one to offer. it's good to see some good in all of this. it's 8:09. let's get a check of the weather from al. >> natalie, thank you so much. as we take a look on our satellite and radar, you can see we've got a pretty good line of showers and thunderstorms stretching from new england all the way into the midwest. snow back through the northern rockies. we'll see six to nine inches of snow back through parts of wyoming, risk of strong storms from oklahoma all the way into i had high, look for wet weather moving into the northeast and later today windy, breezy and we're looking at high surf >> good mor

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this is arsenal street and patterson street or patton street in watertown. significant for that location but what you're seeing there with the ghost town as it's been described is a similar scene throughout watertown and nearby communities all around that area as they lock this area down in the search for a suspect. we have another picture we want to show you, if we can get to that, a live picture of the a different area because really wherever we go the scene is the same with thousands and thousands of police officers converging on this area searching for this one suspect believe to be outstanding. now we do have some information that just came in literally a minute ago. we've talked about the suspect's car description that's been out there. it was described as a 1999 honda crv with massachusetts plates, boston police had tweeted a few minutes ago that they were looking for it because it might be a suspect vehicle and do not approach it. just within the last minute connecticut state police say -- tell royster's news service that the vehicle in question has

let's introduce you to a woman by the name of susan patton, >>brian: why would you introduce that woman? >>steve: she was one of the first female graduates from that great new jersey school san antonio as princeton. she -- new jersey school known as princeton. she graduated in 1977. she has generated a paper that have people saying out loud. what she is saying is while you're at princeton, ladies, find a husband. because essentially if you don't find a husband there the rest of the world is stupid and you don't want to end up with a stupid husband. >>gretchen: it is not exactly that. what she's saying is it takes a lot to get into a institution like that. and while you're there you are surrounded by a pool, both men and women of highly smart intellectual people. and she is suggesting that you should at that time find your spouse because you'll never be in that kind of a select group again on a campus. you go out in the real world, you can run into people here and there but you'll never have that confined group. having said that, i'm not saying that i agree with getting married in colleg

i can only imagine what a peer review for general patton or general macarthur or general schwarzkopfe. a lot of people didn't like them but they were very effective generals at fighting and winning wars. character is incredibly important. everything i learned in the army infused character. you don't want to have toxic leaders in the ranks. it's terrible. at the same time i don't want my four-star general worried about what captain hegseth thinks about him. i'm one tool in the toolbox for him in fighting and winning a war and i will follow his orders. he shouldn't be worried about how i'm going to peer review him. >>brian: here's what general dempsey said about this. he says you can have someone who is intensely competent who is steeped in the skills of his profession but doesn't live a life of character. and that doesn't do me any good. >> you know, general eisenhower had a miss stress when he was world war ii in europe. he seemed to do fine over there. that is not conduct we want or like in our officers but it doesn't reflect his ability to win a war. these are issues they're trying

. >>> and comedian patton oswalt is trying to help victims.host mr. rogers, when you see scary things in the news, look for the helpers. you will always find people who are helping. and bostonians are opening their hearts and homes to anyone stranded by the tragedy. google has created two online documents where people can reach out if they need a place to stay or have one to offer. good to see some good in all of this. 8:09. let's get a check of the weather from al. >> natalie, thank you so much. we take a look at satellite and ray dark we have a pretty good line of showers and thunderstorms, stretching from new england all the way into the midwest. snow through the northern rockies anywhere from 6 to 9 inches of snow back through parts of wyoming, with strong storms from oklahoma to ohio. look for wet weather moving to the northeast later on today. windy, breezy and we're looking at high surf advisories for southern californi >>> that goes for the bay area today as well. al, good morning. it will be windy here. we will see some pretty rough s

. >> this woman, susan patton has two children, one graduated from princeton, the other son is in princetonelebrity now. >> i love this university, i love my town. it has been all the buzz but you guys, last week we were talking about leaning in and having women at the table. >> there's no problem with being at the table. >> you can do both. >> nancy, being a feminist is not saying you can't do this. it's allowing you to do it all. >> star -- >> and to choose what works for people. >> star, it's equal opportunity and equal pay for the equal job and you don't get it when you get married at 19. >> excuse me, i know several women who did that. >> sorry, star. oh, man. >> donny, we'll talk about the yankees right after this. >> don't level me out of the yankees. >> we appreciate it, savannah? >>> we have a psychiatrist right here, i think we need her. to "relationships on the brink" your siblings are supposed to be your best friends and allies. what happens when things fall apart? we talked to lauren martin and brooke von tempsky whose relationship reached a breaking point after years of strain