to obviously the things that when i just talk more about the differences then drac empathy what schickel at russian nurturance. ok yeah so the female brain not only some brain differences that also the hormone ology females have more oxytocin which is a direct bonding chemical and that and the mirror neurons in the insula in the middle you know where empathy happens in the female green mirror neurons last longer than in the male brain and so they have more and more direct empathy immediate and it lasts longer because they mirror the pain and someone else or even and they pick up facial cues and the person may not even be in pain but they see it as pain and they see it as you know and it's a beautiful thing is part of why civilization exists because women have that capacity truly males on the other hand are mirror neurons get killed off more quickly because of our testosterone so testosterone is an aggression chemical and so what males have tended to do and still do is is we tend to we certainly have empathy and all of that but we also tend to nurture through aggression so we create thing