under the guise of modernity it sends us back to the middle ages and that is intolerable sick and shibata. the expectations are always on the mother's side i was expected to take proper care of my child i was expected to impress upon the proper way so it's not cold i'm the one who have to take my daughter to the doctor i'm the one who was in charge of picking her up from can never taking her to kindergarten always at some other and nobody expected my husband to do everything and mother is always there like 7 days a week for 24 hours every day and instead of thanking the mother and seeing what she does people are still complaining what's lacking. in my opinion it's easier to be a father. and i'll feel quite lucky we didn't have any family pressure and i think the fact that as writers we both make a living as writers men affably appear sickly just happy that we're not shooting up heroin in graveyards anything beyond what i thought of the poorness so. but of course east that source will pressure. people. in particular the way. they were allowed to work i have a daughter i had her when i was