. >> reporter: tom mauser, who wears his son's shoes as he makes his way through life on a mission. daniel, he fights to keep guns out of the hands of kids and criminals. he told us he actually met with sue klebold, and the meeting helped turn his anger into understanding.ight, she wants the families to know she's ready to offer anything else that will help. >> i don't want to impose myselfuse it has to be healing and what they need. >> reporter: so many psentenced to a life of grief, with no parole. after our interview is over, sheills of the rocky mountains and tells us sometimes she finds herself drawn to a place that has a s -- "it brought a nation to its knees. what have we learned?" it's the columbine memorial.>> i feel, kind of, unwelcome there. like, you know, of course. that perhaps i'm intruding.ay, if you go to that memorial, you just might see a grey-haired woman quietly, alone. >> i've spent quite a bit of time there. think.y. yeah. >> so much more about all the issues raised tonight on abcnews.com, and social media. and we will beain to the families of the victims, to