his lover, golan pell, and his friend and benefactor, charles kushner. let's take those too bad decisions one at a time when was it that you actually became? intimate with golan i don't get bit diary i'm surprised at jim agreed he didn't remember the date because according to his autobiography, it was one night when his wife was in the hospital recovering from the birth of their daughter so the timing of this is interesting you win election in november 2001 you and golan had your first actual moment as lovers. in december 2001 and then a few weeks after your sworn in talking to reporters, you mentioned him, yet publicly yeah in february 2002 at a meeting with the press defending new hires and homeland security magritte, he said we will not skimp on security and he added that goal on sub-l was, quote, a security adviser from the israeli play defense forces, probably the best in the world, not probably. they do the best in the world you still think he was qualified for that job for wasn't home by the way. i can no homeland security of i was a counselor to