♪ deutsche-man, deutsche-man, donny donny deutsch man ♪ >> i think it's in the contract. >> the firsthting is healthy for a relationship? >> yes. the opposite of love is indifference, fighting is passionate. obviously if you're fighting all the time -- >> and using sharp objects -- >> and hitting below the belt. that's part of passion and making up. it depends on if it's dirty fighting. >> a lot of couples -- i have friends who say, we never fight. >> i'm not saying you have to fight. but fighting can be very healthy. it's about getting things out. >> disagreeing is a nice word. >> you like to fight. >> sometimes. >> okay. the next one is from carol. my husband and i lost our home because of a low-income situation. how can i help my husband feel like he's still our hero in our life? >> that's a good one. >> i love what she said, he's our hero. just tell him that. when a guy is not feeling good about himself and he doesn't think he's supporting his family, it cuts right down. and if she just turned to him and said, you know, you're our hero and we're going to get through this together.

there are men, there are women, and then there's donny deutsch, who is in a category all his own. nny, star and nancy will be here. apparently it takes men longer to get ready and primp. >> donny, how long underneais uh the bus look? >> he has wonderful hair. >> jill martin is here with the often duplicated but never equal "steals and deals" from stylish men's coats to luxurious leather bags. some items more than 80% off. >> in addition to carole king being a good sport standing out here while we're talking about, this natalie morales has a check of the top stories. >> good morning to you guys once again and good morning, everyone. it's being called a super failure as a special deficit reduction super committee has been unable to hash out a debt deal, with no bipartisan deficit reduction deal, deep automatic cuts are set to go into effect in 2013. monday night president obama said he would veto any legislation that tries to block some $600 billion in automatic cuts to the national defense budget. >>> egyptians are calling for a second revolution and a million-man march on cairo's t

star jones, donny deutsche and dr.k there, nbc's chief medical editor. good morning to all of you.. >> hey tamron. >> i'm doing good. someone not doing good, conrad murray under medical observation after being carted off to jail, guilty in the death of michael jackson. star, were you surprised by the verdict? >> not surprised in the least bit. the prosecution put forth a methodical case. it was a building block of gross negligence, no question. with all the news that happened yesterday, you and i were chatting. i said the best thing that happened to herman cain was conrad murray, hands in cuffs beats hands unthe dress. >> only for a day. this story i don't think ever caught on with the media. >> we talked about it, i think the population -- >> there was an obvious outcome to the case. >> you think so? people thought after the portraying as the desperate -- >> it was global. the doctor being tried not so global. if you look at doctors making errors, malpractice cases which are a violation of somebody versus this, there

. >>> still to come, donny deutsch is here to hand out advice for the ladies. he's going to answer your questions. >> ambush makeovers come back home and louis and jill are ready to show off their newest masterpiece. >> guess who is here? newlywed nikki reed. otherwise known as rose alee. we'll talk highlight with her after your local news. >> find out about the honeymoon. >> i want to know what happened. >>> we're back on this friday with our ambush makeovers. >> let's get started. >> i love it that way. >> our first lucky lady is sharon stone. she's 55 years old. >> sharon stone? >> i mean care. karen stone. she's from arizona. her daily beauty routine consists of brushing her hair. she was excited to get a new look. take a listen to her story. >> this is sweet. you want this for your wife. tell me why. >> she's my wife. i love her very much. i want her to have the best. we came to new york and our dreams came true. >> and for you we have a big surprise for your daughter. tell me about it. >> she's a rockette. she's going to be thrilled to have something like

>> donny deutsch. >> i'll take that.e don't cover the planes that land on time. >> yeah. >> and to somehow stay on message and really call these guys out, and if somebody stood up and said, you know what? i'm embarrassed at some of these other people. >> but, donny, i'm not worried about them. i'm more worried about the job situation in this country. i want to know -- >> i'm trying to get him elected and i'm telling you that is the way to do it. >> when you walk through an airport it's a good assessment what's on people's minds. they'll come up and say thank you for putting forward credible ideas, for being somebody who speaks with a voice of sanity. thank you for being a person who can draw from vast experience in your background and being willing to run for president. thank you for not lighting your hair on fire on stage. you hear that from some people. so yeah. up the volume. no question about that. you know what the bottom line is, donny? you've got to have a market moving event to transform things. new hampshire is

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donny deutsch, looking at you. the door. >> it takes you seven minutes to do your hair. >> listen to me i have been with many different women in my life and have yet to find a woman who takes less time. >> i can get out of the bathroom faster than any guy. sorry, men take longer. >> i've been doing it in 15 minutes. >> all right, wait a minute, all right, i don't believe any of you that it's that fast. okay, but anyway, one last topic, sorry, one last topic. happy birthday donny. our last topic. ♪ happy birthday to you >> don't sing it. we have a cake. >> oh, that's so sweet. >> and donny, this is your gift, we were talking about male grooming, i want to put a picture up as you can see, this was donny. >> oh my goodness. >> and so please come clean, now, about the length of time it took. >> that is true, well, that was the '70s, i might point out, the epstein sweathog look. that is amazing. >> you look like a young abbie hoffman. >> you were a pro, babe you had an afro! way to go. >> that's, i don't know what that

mike barnicle and donny deutsch are here.cal analyst eugene robinson who has a really good piece in the post this morning about rick perry not being the only one that stuck his foot in his mouth during the debate. >> we'll talk about that in a minute. the kids on twitter love me. i don't know why, they just do. >> really, i had to close mine down. really? >> the kids on twitter love me. and all the kids on the far right and far left saying really nice things about me, and i picked up -- >> what did you get? >> what i got was corbett the governor was actually attorney general twice. >> that's right. >> twice before he was governor. he certainly was attorney general while a lot of these rapes were going on. and i wonder if any of this information got to the attorney general's office. i think that's something that needs to be investigated. >> we'll find out. >> when he was asked yesterday during a press conference he kept saying he can't talk about the investigation that he was involved in. >> he was asked during the press confe

>> at donny deutsch's magnificent apartment. >> i've never been so impressed in my life with caterer.at's so nice. thank you. >> show us what you've got, baby. >> we've got cheese and wine over here. this is a very simple one. put a little petal on top. >> a little petal? on top of what? >> on top of the cheese. >> and a little of this. >> a little of that. >> have a little bite. >> look at this. >> look how cute! >> tell me what wine this is. your favorite. >> chardonnay. >> yes, it is. >> not that i would know. >> yes, it is. >> next we've got mango shrimp lollipops. here are a whole bunch of ingredients that all go right in there. >> what are they? sour cream? >> a little coconut milk. lime juice. we've got rum. >> do it, baby. what's next? >> tabasco. >> really? >> and herbs. >> it'll all be on our website. >> do you say herbs or herbs? >> herbs. >> i say herbs. i have friends named herb. it's weird. it should be herb. >> we grind it up? >> grind it up. >> go, go, go. >> it's done. >> we'll pretend. >> throw it over. and then. >> look at the little -- >> please. look at the little

star jones, donny deutsche and dr.ance?n some of the latest headlines and trends. folks, good to see you. good morning. >> good morning. >> hey, matt. >> black friday is one of the biggest shopping days of the year but no longer does it start on friday. a lot of retailers out there are advertising they're going to open their stores starting at like 10:00 thanksgiving night to get an early jump on the holiday season. given the economic times, is it fair or does it cross a line? >> you know, i'm so tired of people blaming the media for destroying things. guess what? >> this is the media's business. >> if you don't want to go to a store on thanksgiving don't go. by the way everything is supply and demand. if consumers didn't demand it we wouldn't do it. i'm so tired of the media causes destroying the holiday. don't go to the store. >> by 7:00 in the evening you're full and ready to do something. my family look at black friday as a fun event. my sister gets up at 5:00 a.m. with my cousins, they go out. >> i'm still in bed. >> y

ready to break down the latest trends and headlines and as always, we are joined by star jones, donny deutschesionals." >> i'm not a virgin of anything these days but let's talk about herman cain. my goodness, shall we? >> yes. >> four women may now, there's a possibility the four may come forward together and have the news conference. can he survive this, do you think? >> i'll tell you absolutely, it's very interesting. when you see in polls that people, 25% of people voting for him, what it really means is they want the tv show to continue. one of the crew members before was going, i like that guy. i like listening. the scandal continuum, the most popular politician of the last quartert century have oral sex in the white house, harassment are serious charges but we're anesthisized to this because it's more extreme. i'm not saying it's right. >> i felt i was watching clarence thomas and arnold schwarzenegger. i watched the press conference and i believe him. these women were either so inconsequential or it was such a brief encounter that his disassociation is his truth, and their interaction

we're joined by star jones, donny deutsche and dr. nancy snyderman. good morning.er. kim kardashian filing for divorce after 72 days for marriage. poll, if you think this may have been a publicity stunt? >> possibly. >> no? >> absolutely not. i this i that people go into marriage at least in general with the hope of it working out, with the hope that it will be successful. yes she made money on it and yeah it was a big giant fiasco and i bet she feels worse today than any of us. >> oh, first of all if it was set up as a publicity stunt. what she's sent across to young women of america wedding ares are a joke. >> it's a fantasy. >> you don't get wedded, you get married. the wedding is a party. the marriage is a relationship. >> see here's the thing, who paid for that wedding? the people on the plaza, who pie "people" magazine, she let those people down. she's a joke. >> unfair. nobody, excuse me, nobody told you to stick the finger in your pocket and pull out the money. no one told to you do that. >> is it shame on them or shame on us? >> by the way, this is going t

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star jones, donny deutsche, and dr. nancy snyderman. folks, good morning. nice to see you. of reaction around the country and cleveland heights, ohio. children and family services went into a mother's home, took away her 8-year-old son because that son had reached the weight of 218 pounds, or about four times the average weight of his classmates for a third grader. they were saying she basically neglected the son by trying to control his weight. did they go too far? >> the rules of child abuse are is there an imminent fear that there will be serious harm done to the child? serious, continuous, and it requires emergency action? if you have done everything that you are supposed to do ahead of time, if you have tried family counseling, if you have gone into the home, if you have provided the resources and they still are in the same situation, the court would remove that child. >> doctor? >> a 200 pound 8-year-old that is supposed to weigh about 80 pounds is not going to suddenly lose that weight with probably within the home with suddenly having more nutritious dinner. it requ