i am a journalist, and my co-host clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences, mikhail khors , our heroine today came to us with a problem that, it seems to me, is typical for very many europeans. well, in any case, i came across quite a lot of such stories, and this does not beg this story in any way, on the contrary , it increases its importance. hello tatyana . what did you come to tell us about, i compare myself with others guys with more successful guys with those with whom we started, in principle, compare together not in your favor, but objectively not in your favor. there are simply objective indicators, for example, the number of sales of the profession, the number of subscribers, that is , some such resources. that is measurable. how do they say it? yes, yes, and problems. that is, it lies in the fact that when i compare , i do not have a desire to do more, but i do the opposite. i lie down in some kind of apathy. and why then start, why then start and that's somehow a dialogue in my head? you still won't succeed. do you think? i probably don’t even think about whet

and my co-host clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors and our heroinechildren. i would even say a wonderful heroine, and we admire you. but now, answer me, please, maria to the question. who do you think shows our children? an example of how to how can they know that mom needs to be protected, that mom needs help, what, when you eat in this house? this food has to be paid for. well, the answer is society as a whole is correct, but more specifically, who exactly is in this society? well, i think that i should kind of set an example, what kind of example should you set an example of what? well, i don’t care about my mother or how. there is no way to teach, you see, you are not here at all. you once gave them the opportunity. they said maybe they were little ones to take care of themselves. well, for example, you said there their eldest children when they were five or six years old married their eldest daughter. where is the independence of the eldest daughter, even if she is even married at the age of 27? well, that's what many parents say okay, mikhail u

and this is a podcast of the psyche and we ourselves are the leading clinical psychologist mikhail khorsf the father of many children, konstantin, quite difficult. what is wrong with real life in real life? it's just like that. yes, there is, stepfather. there is a father children from different marriages. they will somehow interact, and an attempt, that means, uh, to call a stepfather a father is an attempt, and to tell one child that you are all here means the same. this is what leads to the fact that children live, well, fantasy, he does not say that you do not have a biological dad. denis daddy we have bones there, as it were, right? well, here we are. well, well, just don't try to be a real father to them. i'm sure you'll get it in time. and you demand it right now here at once, so that everything changes. mikhail was one more caveat. i would like you to be able to deal with her guests. you said it neuroticizes your spouse. i would have heard about these breakdowns all the breakdowns. well, you just try, for example, you do a lot there and then conditionally, where as it is now, dam

i am a journalist, and my co-host is a clinical psychologist, ph.d. in psychology, mikhail khors, andsituation with her children. i would even say a wonderful heroine, and we admire you. but now, answer me, please, maria to the question. who do you think shows our children? an example of how they treat us from where they can learn that mom needs to be protected, that mom needs help, what when you eat in this house? this food has to be paid for. well, the answer is society as a whole is correct, but more specifically , who exactly is in this society? well, i think that i should kind of set an example, yes, that is, if you have to set an example of what, well, i take care of them about my mother or how . they gave them an opportunity. they said maybe the little ones would take care of themselves. well, for example, you said there to their older children when they were five or six years old. you listen, i fucked my eldest daughter in marriage. where is the independence of the eldest daughter, even if she is even married at the age of 27? well, that's what many parents say okay michael uh

mikhail khors sort out quite complex tasks here, but the problem is precisely this, here is a specificnot successful, actually a little. who will win the car. well, they didn't say exactly. you have won a car. but it's the same. what, what is this? well, there was some, well, michael, when the last time i won a car last week, last year i devalue myself with my achievements, now you are in some kind of reality, this called a crisis. don't try to jump out of it. allow yourself to get out of it gradually. uh-huh yes, this is such a professional personal now crisis. by the way, he is quite common among young people. just now closer to 30 and 27-28-27 starts, well, 4 months have just passed. i still say i live, so he will figure out that the girl is young, pretty. everything will be fine with personal relationships, it is important that you get out and allow you to go out of the crisis, because it seems to me that you broke up. this is also here, added to you the crisis, so the way out. well it seems to me that someone is a dead end, which hmm crushed, well, yes, probably both families were

go suddenly and the candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors said formulated our podcast to the psyches. you see, lately, right now, this request from people to live without stress, live happily, as it is, perhaps we have on this provokes there conditionally media media to it. they are a promise to you, no matter how infinite, happiness and critical thinking , adult critical thinking. and what is adult critical thinking natalya is, when a person lives in reality and looks at wow reality, it turns out that such and such it is different. and an attempt to narrow down this field of variability of reality to one warm and comfortable corridor for you personally, it is very neurotic. yes, that's for sure. let's talk with you more about the relationship of your children with their mother, because look, we are considering the whole of such a large family, in which i see there are three dads and two moms. yes, all this needs to be explained. well, here we are like with mom, thank god, all the children all communicate, and we are all going. that is, it is, as it were, like a magnet an

there, the leading candidate of psychological sciences, mikhail khors, and our today's guest oksana,lived under the rule of a tyrant for five years and still has not completely got rid of him, i still have a question, but i felt that very help and support from him these years. he gave you something, but a part. yes, i felt that as if he was not indifferent. uh, as if my mother's health took her to the hospital for discharge, well, as if with money, that is, he worked, brought his salary at that time. well, i haven't been working lately. here, therefore, as it were, i can’t say that he is purely dependent there on mine. yes, there he lived in my apartment and on his laurels such happiness flashes, then it already began, and these flashes actually began, about four months later, as we began to live. and you somehow discussed these outbreaks with him. let's talk about this tell how it hurts you to tell that he is terrible to experience these outbreaks. he thought i was to blame for all of, uh, those situations. you talked to him, you told how hurt and scared you were. of course, well, a

am a journalist, and my co-leading clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences, mikhail khors, and we are unraveling, but our heroine, polina, is today's various fascinating combinations of complex psychological situations. hello, you came with a problem that you know. i thought that the universe sent me to see how it happens to me too. are you the third person to tell me about this? let's tell i'm suffering from a very strong irritability. and i really suffer from it. i can't handle my anger. i can't handle the anger. although there is a lot of work on myself on all fronts, but since i started working on myself, it has surfaced. this underwater stone and now does not allow me to live in peace in love in gratitude in a positive positive thinking. it means you can't handle anger. this is what it means, well, it irritates me, everything starts me. just a row in the store, she wrote to us, when your situation. i just realized what happens sometimes. well, it's just, well, it's impossible not to react to some rudeness in a store or on a tram, and again, right. yes, i never start a

my name is natalya loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail khors analyzedt very vital maria be happy, please. thank you very much.

this is a podcast of the psyche, where i am journalist natalya loseva and clinical psychologist mikhail khorst need to allow yourself to envy praise yourself for it or how to allow yourself to accept? uh, even those u know, mental and personality traits that u are considered negative and unpleasant, for example, you accept them. how is the norm, in general? yes , because after all, er, our psyche is the world as a whole, it is generally multi-colored. and here is an attempt to assemble, as it were, a puzzle only from beautiful bright and interesting pieces, yes, and throw it away. there, all black gray colorless leads to the fact that the puzzle becomes full of holes. and now, as if through these holes, all our strength is leaving, on the contrary, when we begin an operation on all facets of our personality. here i am jealous. and here i am , on the contrary, i am happy for my friend. here. i'm probably scolding myself for not being happy for my friend. wow, that means, let's stop scolding ourselves for the start that you are such a person right now, tell me aloud, please, i'm a person. i hav

oh my co-host candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors and our today's guest oksana is a beautiful girl who lived under the rule of a tyrant for 5 years and still hasn't completely got rid of him , i still have a question. and you felt the same help and support from him all these years. he gave you something, well, a part, yes, i felt uh-huh that, no matter how indifferent to him. uh, as if my mother's health took her to the hospital for discharge. well, as if with money, that is, he worked, brought his salary, they worked at that time. well lately i yes it didn't work anymore. here, therefore, as it were , i can’t say that he is purely dependent there on mine. yes, there he lived in my apartment and on his laurels such happiness flashes, then it had already begun. these are actually his flashes. it started about four months after we began to live, and you somehow discussed these outbreaks with him. here to talk about this , tell how painful it is for you to tell that he is terrible to experience these outbreaks. he thought that i was to blame for all these situations with him, you

my name is natalya loseva and together with clinical psychologist mikhail khors.s what it says, well , except for the fact that she has achieved at least this already, yes. come on, let's go out now on the streets of moscow and ask who knows at least one foreigners says that nastya taught four foreign languages ​​that she knows how to achieve goals, that she is hardworking and hardworking. we know that languages ​​are taken, including, so to speak, uh, our muscles say about the soul, that nastya knew how to achieve goals and that she was efficient. it seems to me, but, in addition to the skill, you need more resources, you know, and this is how to buy yourself a beautiful one there. car gasoline yes and gasoline is a resource that the motor will require in the engine, so a crisis is that it's always not what you wanted, yes, i got something for that, no, it doesn’t correspond to it itself - this is the norm. and the assessment of what, uh, when it doesn't match? this badly creates a crisis. and this crisis, er, there, some long-term chronic experiences. here you a

name is natalia loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist ph.d. in psychology mikhail khorsnd our guest maria filat maria 27-25 23 20 15 and 8. and now we live in a big good apartment, and my problem is that my adult children ride on me, that is, they they don't want me at all, let alone help in some way. yes, although we have a normal relationship, if i am one on one with someone, yes, that is , for example, but with my eldest daughter, yes, that is, now we have married her, i have a great attitude towards october. yes, she got out. and how many children live in the apartment now there are five and you have a problem with whom with adult children? boys, two daughters and a son, that is the problem , what is the problem is that everyone wants me to be like before, i brought them up practically alone, yes, that is, i always worked, drove to school in a kindergarten in a nursery far away. i wanted to give them the best. what is the problem? the problem is that they are not something that they can't do to me, well, they don't do anything around the house. yes, even now, when th

my name is natalya loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail khors analyzedifficult situation, but very vital maria be happy, please. thank you very much i will try. hello this is an anthropology podcast , its host is dmitry dibrov and our guest is an art project of a villa led by another coveted one. i ask you and you to tell us firsthand what kind of project it is. this is a villa art project. why villas? well, these are slavic mythological characters, they have hair to the ground, white wings and goat hooves, and so they turned out from young brides who died before the wedding, about this and the first song is not about love. that's how she went to the wedding. they arrived. yeah, it means that there was still love go. what wind is the wind and kakapurya raises? i will not forget an empty letter to you marishka with water. bravo dear friends, but not only the art project of the pitchfork is strong with drowned people, but you still have it. be healthy, what kind of groom is there anywhere, who is this person? this is sergei kalachev, with whom we have been

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natalya loseva i am a journalist, and my co-host is a clinical psychologist , ph.d. in psychology mikhail khorsoes not beg this story in any way, on the contrary , it increases its importance. hello tatyana, hello, what did you tell us about, i compare myself with other guys with painfully successful guys with those with whom we started, in principle, together we compare not in our favor, but objectively not in our favor. it's just that there are objective indicators, for example, the number of sales of a profession, and the number of subscribers. that is , some such resources. that is, measurable as they say, yes, and the problem is that when i compare , i don’t have a desire, but to do more, and i’m the opposite. i lie down in some kind of apathy. and why then start, why then start and somehow a dialogue in my head? i still can't do it. you think, well, i probably don't even think about whether it will work or not. i just have all my energy that could be used, it just drops, and then i can’t do anything at all. how old are you now 27 turned 27. and when this discomfort began. this is the reac

name is natalya loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist ph.d. in psychology mikhail khorsaria what happened you know, i will immediately start with the problem that i have, i am the mother of six children, and i have children 27-25 23:20 15 and eight. we now live in a big nice apartment, and my problem is that my adult children are riding me, that is, they they don't want me at all, let alone help in some way. yes, although we have a normal relationship, if i'm one on one with someone, yes, that is, for example, with my eldest daughter. yes, that is, it is now we, i married her a wonderful relationship now in october. yes, she got out. and how many children live in the apartment now there are five and you have a problem with whom with adult children? ah, two daughters and a son, that is the problem, what is the problem is that everyone wants me to be as before, i practically raised them alone, yes, that is, i worked all the time, took me to school in kindergarten in the nursery for distant lands. i wanted to give them the best. what is the problem? the problem is that they

my name is natalya loseva, my leading clinical psychologist mikhail khors and our guest today, who is a wonderful girl oksana hello oksana, what brought you to us? tell your story. i had a difficult relationship. uh, we lived with a young man, a 5 years of civil marriage. that was not easy. he was a tyrant and manipulator, and he periodically had breakdowns. and, that is, he shouted, arranged disassembly scandals, and there he could arrange from scratch. ah, the screams. there he raised his hand, well, there were situations, yes, and kia and 2 years, as i in the truest sense of the word, he fled from him during these two years. uh this man keeps me going pursue, and moreover, as if i can not find a solution to this problem. he pursues you in social networks or in the direct physical even in social networks everywhere. i blocked him on my phone, i also blocked him. that is, he doesn’t, well, has no contact with me, and the only way to somehow find me and, uh, how to continue trying to restore communication. this is a sport. that is, as if he himself is also an athlete, and you are eith

i am a journalist, and my co-host is a clinical psychologist , ph.d. in psychology, mikhail khors., it seems to me, is typical for so many of her peers. well, in any case, i came across quite a lot of such stories, and this does not beg this story in any way, on the contrary , it increases its importance. hello tatiana hello, what did you come to tell us about, i compare myself with other guys with more successful guys with those with whom we started, in principle.

natalya loseva and thought, a leading clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khorsf tatiana , who, as we just found out, is jealous. so what do you really want when you look at how successful your girlfriend is. what do you think? no? i want to find some kind of this fishing rod of mine, not just money, if they give me 100.000 200.000 million. this will not improve the situation in any way. i want to find a way how to fix this flow? yes, how to get it? how to sell your services? how can you search, and what is needed to seek strength, and you spend your strength on what you are experiencing, that you cannot find it right now. just not now. but why because you think it should be right now. yes? this is some kind of child just in all areas of life so in his personal life, how is it with you? but no, it’s not so far in all areas, but, but i’ve begun to work it out right now, probably for the last two or three years, for example, in sports it’s not so, that is, everything cannot be all at once. yes, gradually, each workout with men is also not everything and not everyth

am a journalist natalya loseva, a clinical psychologist, a candidate of psychological sciences, mikhail khorshose stressful conditions that are called panic attacks. i hope that we, but a little bit , have moved forward with this situation in any way. case of glitter in the eyes. nasty gives us hope. this is a podcast by fire and i am its host denis gorelov today our conversation is about the military cinema of the soviet union and its successor the russian federation on the occasion of the day of the soviet army and navy as for military cinema, it was absolutely the know-how of our cinema, maybe not always fully aware of it, but completely natural since. e hmm let's talk straight about our war. uh, people knew much more than all other nations, more or less in proportion to us. e about military affairs. uh, only three nationalities, germans, japanese and yugoslavs, had an idea. but the germans and the japanese, as the losing side, could not afford to speak out. at least somehow about the heroism of their armies. they had to blame the whole planet and show how uh hmm their guilt is not redeeme

psychic podcast i am a journalist natalia loseva and my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail khors,alyzing the situation of tatyana, who, as we just found out, is envious. so what do you really want when you look at how successful your girlfriend is. how about you seems? no? i want to find some of my own this fishing rod in a different way of thinking about money. not just money. if they give me 100.000 200.000 million there, this will not improve the situation. i want to exactly find a way how to fix this flow. yes, how to get it? how to sell your services? how can you search, and what is needed to look for strength, and you spend your strength on what you are experiencing, that you cannot find it right now, that it is simply not there right now, yes, and why are you worried? because you think it should be right now. yes, this is some kind of child just agree, in all areas of life so in personal life. how are you? a. no, it’s not so far in all areas , but, but i just started working on it, probably for the last two or three years, for example, in sports it’s not like that, that is,

my name is natalya loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail khors analyzedifficult situation, but very vital maria please be happy thank you very much i will try. hi this is a free program podcast. i am maxim trankov and my today's interlocutor is the beautiful anzhelika krylova . well, in general, how would i spend my youth here at the age of 21. i left and this, as it were , was completely different. i was in the role of an athlete when we left and i became interested in how it works here as a coach, and i came and tried and learned a lot. this is a great experience for me i know, but everything seems to be different here, but the system itself and the preparation, the way i cook, the way i cooked the americans, that's how i cook the russians. well, maybe a little harder, because here you can. well, not because it's possible here, because they need it here so soon, because they are so used to it. they have been brought up this way since childhood, coaches have been preparing them. in what system a slightly raised tone a little more rigidity of the parent r

so far, the clinical psychologist , ph.d. in psychology, mikhail khors, we have analyzed the difficultituation of the father of many children, konstantin . let's agree, you don't drive go-karts. i don't write stories like that. no, i have like a text system that turns the same text into alcohol reading a play, a book. cinema is american burn. what is the name, and that means there was a misunderstanding, as it is called, a tragic misunderstanding, and the second divisional divisional, where everything is on another planet. they were waiting for the execution, ah, decimation, yes, but they are not on another planet, they start on the island. yes, it's tuesday, of course. yes, dear friends, we must begin. well , then they themselves come back in order to call nothing, dear friends. we are already writing new series cheers comrades of the first channel so that it is so illegal to say that because i'm an editor, i'm not bored. let's we let's introduce you first, let's introduce, but everything is like this, just like that, yes, here you are thinking about the creative industry. i thought i

my name is natalya loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail khors analyzed a difficult situation, but very vital maria be happy, please. thank you very much i will try. hello , ukrainian nationalists fired from the hummers, the city of perevalsk, the lugansk people's republic, two series, and so donetsk survived long-range nato shells. howitzers fired ammunition in three areas caliber 155. mm used in makiivka our troops do not leave attacks on civilians . without response, they strike at the military and energy infrastructure of the enemy. today, a series of explosions sounded in nikopol and manganese from these cities on the right bank of the dnieper is pouring shells on the power units of the zaporizhzhya nuclear power plant, the city of nuclear scientists , energodar, the ukrainian media reported an explosion in the vicinity of kiev and another in the city of zaporozhye, an air raid alert was announced on the territory of central and eastern ukraine to be implemented tasks in the area of a motorized rifle unit is being trained; skills are being improved o

loseva i am a journalist, and my co-host clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khorsccessful guys with those with whom we started, in principle, compare together not in your favor, but objectively not in your usefulness. it's just that there are objective indicators, for example, the number of sales of a profession, and the number of subscribers. that is some such resources. that is, measurable, as they say? yes, yes, and the problem is that when i compare, i don’t have a desire, but to do more, and i’m the opposite. i lie down in some kind of apathy. and why then start, why then start and somehow a dialogue in my head? i still can't do it. you think, well, i probably don't even think about whether it will work or not. i just have all my energy that could be used, it just drops, and then i don’t do anything at all. can do. how old are you now 27 , 27. and when this discomfort began. this is the reaction to someone else's success. uh, self-comparison, apathy. follow-up. uh, probably with the advent of social networks, where i began to notice how others develop. and i'm

let the psyche of the journalist natalya loseva and the psychologist mikhail khors read with dmitry bakccess tonight, let's talk about feelings, sometimes not the most pleasant, but so familiar. i'm not happy for my friend. i envy myself and scold myself for being curled. that's right, it overloads the psyche and the feeling is like that. so envy is the theme of the premiere episode of the psychic podcast. how to stop constantly looking at others? i compare myself with others, such as the number of profession sales, and the number of subscribers. that is, i still can’t help but please the abyss of my own emotions. i get very upset and at some point just i fall asleep, because the energy drops right to zero, we take off together with leonid yakubovich. you know that they turn around to look at you. this is what the secret profession likes, stewardesses in the podcast, everyone wants to fly, when they go there are passengers 100-150 people 400 people and one of them, uh, has time, uh, to give a few compliments. you know already, starting with the boarding of passengers. in principle, self