a loved one, we will talk about this right now and contact us nataliya bondarenko, candidate of psychological sciencesher of the department school of social work of the kyiv-mohyla academy, practical psychologist of the highest category, mrs. natalya, i congratulate you, i also congratulate the audience, first of all , i want to ask you to share our conversation with you for such two blocks and first we will talk about how to survive the psychological trauma received by a person as a result of shelling and occupation, and only then we will talk about how to survive the loss of a loved one and not lose yourself from grief so we start from the beginning, now a lot of ukrainians become the victims of shelling go through the horrors of the occupation, and all this, let's say, does not pass without a trace for their psyche, and even when they are in relatively safe places, i say relatively, because now there are no safe places in ukraine places of alarm sound in all areas and an enemy missile can arrive at any moment. therefore, even in relatively safe places, a person cannot forget to experience and these

is natalya loseva i am a journalist, and we are all a leading clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological scienceshail today's our the heroine came to us with a problem that, it seems to me, is typical for so many of her peers. well, in any case, i came across quite a lot of such stories, and this does not detract from this story in any way, on the contrary, increases its importance. hello tatyana, hello, what did you come to tell us about, i compare with other guys with more successful guys with those with whom we started, in principle, compare together not in your favor, but objectively not in your favor. there are simply objective indicators, for example, the number of sales professions, and the number of subscribers. that is , some such resources. that is, measurable , as they say, yes, and the problem is that when i compare, i don’t have a desire, but to do more, and i’m the opposite. i lie down in some kind of apathy. and why then start, why then start and somehow a dialogue in my head? i still can't do it. do you think? i probably don’t even think about whether it will work or not. i just h

psyche i journalist natalya loseva and my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail khors, candidate of psychological sciences who, as we just found out, is envious. so what do you really want when you look at how successful your girlfriend is. what do you think? no? i want to find some of my own here this fishing rod of money money, not just money. if they give me 100.000 200.000 million there, this will not improve the situation. i just want to find a way how to set up this flow? yes, how to get it? how sell your services? how can you find someone who is capable? look for, and what you need to look for strength, and you spend your strength on what you are experiencing, that you cannot find it right now, that it simply does not exist now. yes, why because you think that it should be right now. yes? this is something in all areas of life so in personal life. how are you? a? no, it’s not so far in all areas, but, but i just started working on it, probably for the last two or three years, for example, in sports it’s not so, that is, everything can’t be all at once and straightaway. yes, gradually, each workout

natalya, you catch a journalist and my partner, so the podcast clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciencesil khors, we analyzed the difficult situation of the father of many children konstantin guys, i'm very glad to see you, i 'm glad that you all came and wanted to introduce you to each other. this is olga sergeeva , actress, theater film actress. we are now oley together worked on the film girl woman, children's picture, where she was a director, and olga was a performer one of the main roles. i really liked the people who work when i found out that we will be discussing romantic russian fiction today. i realized that we need the opinion of a teenager. that's because i believe that teenagers are the main audience of literature. here is the so-called yang gave it is now called. yes, that is, not for children, but just like grown-up boys and girls. this is roma theological writer e and the musician, by the way, also, uh, roma has philosophical let's say approach to various phenomena. i really like the way roma talks, and that's why i wanted roma to tell us something as a writer about writ

medical psychologist uh, candidate of psychological sciences associate professor, you are related toaviation, for example , people who are trying to enter aviation let's suppose they leave military aviation and go into civilian aviation. you touch this category of people. yes that's right. here are all the three categories you listed - these are the aviation personnel who undergo an assessment of their health, including mental health. e. well, here, if very briefly succinctly, the first part is the minimum part consists of two blocks. this is an assessment of the personality of the mental state of the individual, the type of response, the prevailing and so on. and of course, mental stability and the second block - this is already the highest mental function - cognitive functions, that is, roughly speaking, pvc is a professionally important quality you will lie to specialists. well, nevertheless, if you yourself do not have kayphobia. some feeling. what do you decide, because fate is unconditional, well, as an honored pilot, and he has nothing but the sky, nothing else at all. and now

natalya loseva and today, together with my co-leading clinical psychologist, i am a candidate of psychological sciences i will help our guest konstantin erokhin understand what is going on in his family, what is happening with the children and why relationships are not building up. that's right. you are a father of many children. yes, how many children are you? well, as i say, in the overall standings i have five children. what is it that the two children that i am now raising, that we live with are children, my second wife from a previous relationship. well we think they they come actively already in this adolescence, of course, this red light is already on somewhere. what is that red light bulb? that there are some moments when the child is already starting to act differently from the way you see him or not the way you have a model of behavior there for an ideal child. wait, here's the main problem. what is the problem only in these two children. because you still have children in common, so you understand that this wife also has a child from her first marriage. yes, we have two more children. and i

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podcast i am a journalist natalya loseva and thought, a leading clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological scienceshe situation of tatiana , who, as we just found out, is jealous. so what do you really want when you look at how successful your girlfriend is. what do you think? no? i want to find some kind of this fishing rod of mine, not just money, if they give me 100.000 200.000 million. this will not improve the situation in any way. i want to find a way how to fix this flow? yes, how to get it? how to sell your services? how can you search, and what is needed to seek strength, and you spend your strength on what you are experiencing, that you cannot find it right now. just not now. but why because you think it should be right now. yes? this is some kind of child just in all areas of life so in his personal life, how is it with you? but no, it’s not so far in all areas, but, but i’ve begun to work it out right now, probably for the last two or three years, for example, in sports it’s not so, that is, everything cannot be all at once. yes, gradually, each workout with men is also not everything a

podcast, where i am a journalist, natalya loseva and my co-host clinical psychologist candidate of psychological sciences tasks here, but the problem is precisely this, here is a specific local, that is, i can’t say that i’m not successful, actually a little. who will win the car. well, they didn't say exactly. you have won a car. but it's the same. what, what is this? well, there was some, well, michael, when the last time i won a car last week, last year i devalue myself with my achievements, now you are in some kind of reality, this called a crisis. don't try to jump out of it. allow yourself to get out of it gradually. uh-huh yes, this is such a professional personal now crisis. by the way, he is quite common among young people. just now closer to 30 and 27-28-27 starts, well, 4 months have just passed. i still say i live, so he will figure out that the girl is young, pretty. everything will be fine with personal relationships, it is important that you get out and allow you to go out of the crisis, because it seems to me that you broke up. this is also here, added to you the crisis, so the way out. w

i am a journalist, and my co-leading clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences, mikhail khors, and we are unraveling, but our heroine, polina, is today's various fascinating combinations of complex psychological situations. hello, you came with a problem that you know. i thought that the universe sent me to see how it happens to me too. are you the third person to tell me about this? let's tell i'm suffering from a very strong irritability. and i really suffer from it. i can't handle my anger. i can't handle the anger. although there is a lot of work on myself on all fronts, but since i started working on myself, it has surfaced. this underwater stone and now does not allow me to live in peace in love in gratitude in a positive positive thinking. it means you can't handle anger. this is what it means, well, it irritates me, everything starts me. just a row in the store, she wrote to us, when your situation. i just realized what happens sometimes. well, it's just, well, it's impossible not to react to some rudeness in a store or on a tram, and again, right. yes, i never s

there, the leading candidate of psychological sciences, mikhail khors, and our today's guest oksana,lived under the rule of a tyrant for five years and still has not completely got rid of him, i still have a question, but i felt that very help and support from him these years. he gave you something, but a part. yes, i felt that as if he was not indifferent. uh, as if my mother's health took her to the hospital for discharge, well, as if with money, that is, he worked, brought his salary at that time. well, i haven't been working lately. here, therefore, as it were, i can’t say that he is purely dependent there on mine. yes, there he lived in my apartment and on his laurels such happiness flashes, then it already began, and these flashes actually began, about four months later, as we began to live. and you somehow discussed these outbreaks with him. let's talk about this tell how it hurts you to tell that he is terrible to experience these outbreaks. he thought i was to blame for all of, uh, those situations. you talked to him, you told how hurt and scared you were. of course, well, a

of the psyche , where i am a journalist natalya loseva, a clinical psychologist, a candidate of psychological sciencessia deal with those stressful conditions that are called panic attacks. i hope that we, but a little bit , have moved forward with this situation in any way. case of glitter in the eyes. nasty gives us hope. this is a podcast by fire and i am its host denis gorelov today our conversation is about the military cinema of the soviet union and its successor the russian federation on the occasion of the day of the soviet army and navy as for military cinema, it was absolutely the know-how of our cinema, maybe not always fully aware of it, but completely natural since. e hmm let's talk straight about our war. uh, people knew much more than all other nations, more or less in proportion to us. e about military affairs. uh, only three nationalities, germans, japanese and yugoslavs, had an idea. but the germans and the japanese, as the losing side, could not afford to speak out. at least somehow about the heroism of their armies. they had to blame the whole planet and show how uh hmm their guilt

oh my co-host candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors and our today's guest oksana is a beautiful girl who lived under the rule of a tyrant for 5 years and still hasn't completely got rid of him , i still have a question. and you felt the same help and support from him all these years. he gave you something, well, a part, yes, i felt uh-huh that, no matter how indifferent to him. uh, as if my mother's health took her to the hospital for discharge. well, as if with money, that is, he worked, brought his salary, they worked at that time. well lately i yes it didn't work anymore. here, therefore, as it were , i can’t say that he is purely dependent there on mine. yes, there he lived in my apartment and on his laurels such happiness flashes, then it had already begun. these are actually his flashes. it started about four months after we began to live, and you somehow discussed these outbreaks with him. here to talk about this , tell how painful it is for you to tell that he is terrible to experience these outbreaks. he thought that i was to blame for all these situations with him, you

psyche, where i am a journalist, natalia loseva and my co-host clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciencesrs, analyze quite complex the tasks are here, but the problem is precisely this, here is a specific local, that is, i can’t say that i’m not successful, actually a little. who will win the car. well, you didn't even say so. you won a car, but it's the same. what, what is this? well, there was some, well, so-so. the last time i win a car last week, i feel our devaluation of our achievements is now you are in some kind of fact, it's called a crisis. don't try to jump out of it. allow yourself to get out of it gradually. uh huh, this one is professional personal now the crisis. by the way, he is quite common among young people. just now, closer to thirty and 27-28 , you begin to sow, which is still needed early. not needed. well, it's only been 4 months. i still say i live, so it will figure it out. he is a young, pretty girl. everything will be fine with personal relationships, it is important to get out and let me get out of the crisis, because it seems to me that you broke up. it's her

and my co-host clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors and our heroinechildren. i would even say a wonderful heroine, and we admire you. but now, answer me, please, maria to the question. who do you think shows our children? an example of how to how can they know that mom needs to be protected, that mom needs help, what, when you eat in this house? this food has to be paid for. well, the answer is society as a whole is correct, but more specifically, who exactly is in this society? well, i think that i should kind of set an example, what kind of example should you set an example of what? well, i don’t care about my mother or how. there is no way to teach, you see, you are not here at all. you once gave them the opportunity. they said maybe they were little ones to take care of themselves. well, for example, you said there their eldest children when they were five or six years old married their eldest daughter. where is the independence of the eldest daughter, even if she is even married at the age of 27? well, that's what many parents say okay, mikhail u

my name is natalya loseva, a journalist at my co-host of the clinical psychologist candidate of psychological sciencesail khors hello and our today's guest anastasia anastasia tell us what brought us to you. i came to you with such a problem that i started having panic attacks and they diagnosed me. i am now striving for this in order to find out exactly with the professionals what is happening with me, but according to the descriptions and self-feelings , this is exactly what happened at the beginning of this year, but the peak came when i realized that something had to be done. it is necessary to change something when i was just filling out the documents for a visa. well, it would seem that some ordinary documents that are constantly filled out. i saw a list of uh documents, there were a lot of things to prepare. and my body just froze. i couldn’t breathe, and i slammed the laptop shut, just threw it away, and for about an hour i tried to breathe and meditate. that is, i just didn’t know what could help me, so i’ll think meditation immediately dialed on the phone, listened and tried to breathe throu

medical psychologist central medical flight expert commission candidate of psychological sciences associateprofessor you are related to aviation, for example, people who are trying to enter aviation people who have entered some aviation educational institution or people who, for example, are leaving military aviation are moving to civil you touch this categories of people. yes that's right. all three of the categories you listed are those aviation personnel who undergo an assessment of their health, including the mental airborne expert commission. the psychologist is being tested. e. well, here, if very briefly succinctly, the first part is the minimum part consists of two blocks. this is an assessment of the individual's mental state , the personality characteristics of these responses, prevailing, and so on. and of course, mental stability and the second block are already higher mental functions - cognitive functions, that is, roughly speaking, pc professionally important qualities will be a specialist doctor. well, nevertheless, do you have some kind of phobia? some feeling. what do you

of the psyche. and how are you? see, we're practically doing surgery here, except psychological with a clinical psychologist , candidate of psychological sciencesce. well, i am a journalist, natalya loseva , i help both him and our heroes as best i can. now polina, who doesn’t want to be a habalka, i believe that she won’t be. thanks a lot deeply. yes? i really don’t accept myself again , only here from one extreme to another. for the answer, you understand, such a thing, it turns out zinedine zidane has been out of work for 2.5 years, and you have already mentally prepared such a base for yourself that it can continue enough long your time out of work, but really i don't have any kind of hard restrictions about it. the main thing is that there should be an option that was really interesting to me, that suited me and that would contribute to my development. well, uh , with regard to timelines, i have a lot to do with my free time, because besides coming to interviews, i don’t know there to perform in college shows. i have a school where there are a lot of projects that we want to implement interesting projects coming up, and i am happy to deal

my name is natalya loseva i am a journalist, and my co-host clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciencesh painfully successful guys with those with whom we started, in principle, compare together not in your favor, but objectively not in your usefulness. it's just that there are objective indicators, for example, the number of sales of a profession, and the number of subscribers. that is some such resources. that is, measurable, as they say? yes, yes, and the problem is that when i compare, i don’t have a desire, but to do more, and i’m the opposite. i lie down in some kind of apathy. and why then start, why then start and somehow a dialogue in my head? i still can't do it. you think, well, i probably don't even think about whether it will work or not. i just have all my energy that could be used, it just drops, and then i don’t do anything at all. can do. how old are you now 27 , 27. and when this discomfort began. this is the reaction to someone else's success. uh, self-comparison, apathy. follow-up. uh, probably with the advent of social networks, where i began to notice how others de